She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wtf, lol? I don't know who she is, it's just one random pic I used to start a baseline. I'll throw in some other variables I'm checking.zekko said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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cordoncordon said:Ok I'm gonna do a drive by here for a second only because this guy has done it to me about 50 Million times. A 7 huh? At best? Oh you have to be all bad azz, keep up that persona, and downgrade this girl huh? Why don't you post some pics of the girls you have been dating from that How To Be a Man book you are writing? Please? Coming from someone who looks like you, that is surprising. She is a very solid 8-8.5 and I can promise you 95% of the guys on here have not had anything close to her, including you. I would lay every dime I have that this girl would look at you and laugh and laugh if you tried to pick her up. You are not even in the same city block as her.
This is you> http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tdGaZbi1CmY/Sf9Q1LoE8VI/AAAAAAAAABo/BOAjpD_eXvQ/S220-h/Frater+KS2.jpeg
I'm not saying you're ugly, I mean you have a decent face, but you are the epitome of what we call white trash. And I'm white, grew up middle class. You have a beer gut. Smoke. Tats. I'm guessing you live in Florida, trailer park, sucking down 40's all day while watching nascar.
You WISH you could get with a girl like that.
BTW..fashion tip, cutoff T-shirts should be worn exclusively at the gym for working out, anywhere else and you'll get called.....well, I already said it.Do you sleep in a bed with a black headboard and a blanket with a panther on it??
Carry on with your book please.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I rated my last girlfriend at a 6.5 tops and that was being generous. I am harsh. a 7.5 in my scale is a very, very beautiful women and I would be absolutely amped if I successfully got her number. Since I don't count fat chicks in my scale, a 5 is actually an average looking girl. If you go to a country where there are no fat people, you'll see what I mean.Colossus said:
"She is pretty but nothing special." Isn't that like a 6?Ready2improve said:
What is a 9 to you then? A cute and moderately exotic girl who is sort of fun at parties? :crackup: Maybe your scale goes to 16. If she were a real stunner, I would surely comment and praise and write a beautiful post about it, but I think it's fair to say that she has much more potential, she could be twice as pretty then she is in that pic. I don't want to write talking bad, it isn't like she is ever going to read my post anyways, am I right? In fact, what is the purpose of such a experience, op? It seems that many people just went out and commented without a particular explanation why we are asked to perform do such an action... Perhaps, then, it is I who has incredibly missed some fine interesting detail on the study in question. :crackup: Oh, what a remarkable observartion!backbreaker said:
This is pretty interesting indeed. I love skinny, tall women, perhaps slightly muscled at times. Like, often a skinny girl with an average face is enough to do it for me. My friend on the other hand, would rather have a thick girl.synergy1 said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WTF are you talking about? Where did I attack a moderator on this thread?JustLurk said:
Zarky said:I'd like to see the guys who rated her a "7" post pics of women they think are 9s and 10s
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
stod being gay, you virgin-azz loserDarth said:
what you posted wasn't a "different taste". You just flat out tried to put down the chicks that you and your insecure little mind think you never have a chance of getting. Stop acting like a chump, and stop talking shyt like "jeans are too low"......who the hell even says that??Darth said:
Why do you care so much? I wasn't gonna say anything at first, but why is this even continuing? He can think what he wants. Does the height of someone's jeans in a picture matter? Probably not, but why does it bother you so much what his opinion is?The Assistant said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.