I think that DJ Fear has made a point that really can’t be refuted. I know some of you are all caught up in trying to be better, hoping, wishing that everything will work for the better for yourself. But the fact of the matter is; most guys really have no chance of dating supermodels. There just aren’t enough supermodels to go around.
Take a look at the whole game/PUA/DJ business and apply a little logic and one will see why DJ Fear is correct. The underlying idea is that attraction is a learned skill. Now say if you teach a man the “learned” skill of attraction then he should be able to go out into the world and attract any woman, even a supermodel. Now say you take 100 men and teach them the “learned” skill of attraction then all of them should be able to go out into the world and attract any woman, even a supermodel. Now the problem arises; what if all 100 men desire the same woman, the same supermodel.
More than likely the woman will only want one man at a time in her life. But if 100 men are applying the same skills, shouldn’t she then be attracted to all 100 men? Do you see how absurd it is?
How do I know? Throughout the years I have dated some pretty hot women. In every case our relationship began by looking at each other, in some cases from across the room. I’ve witnesses many guys come onto these women, guys that had no chance with the woman but tried nonetheless. Not once has an average guy ever come along and with his superior game stolen a woman away from me. Quite the opposite, there have been times where several guys were coming on to the same woman and she came over to me when all I did was look at her.
Take a look at the whole game/PUA/DJ business and apply a little logic and one will see why DJ Fear is correct. The underlying idea is that attraction is a learned skill. Now say if you teach a man the “learned” skill of attraction then he should be able to go out into the world and attract any woman, even a supermodel. Now say you take 100 men and teach them the “learned” skill of attraction then all of them should be able to go out into the world and attract any woman, even a supermodel. Now the problem arises; what if all 100 men desire the same woman, the same supermodel.
More than likely the woman will only want one man at a time in her life. But if 100 men are applying the same skills, shouldn’t she then be attracted to all 100 men? Do you see how absurd it is?
How do I know? Throughout the years I have dated some pretty hot women. In every case our relationship began by looking at each other, in some cases from across the room. I’ve witnesses many guys come onto these women, guys that had no chance with the woman but tried nonetheless. Not once has an average guy ever come along and with his superior game stolen a woman away from me. Quite the opposite, there have been times where several guys were coming on to the same woman and she came over to me when all I did was look at her.
