You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Those who "know" have been banned and hence there are few who go against the false tripe regurgitated from the so-called "DJ Bible" by a handful of so-called "knowledgables'!!!!!!PRMoon said:^^As long as I've been here that element has been here as well. You've got to figure less then 10% of the people here are actually as good as they say they are.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your statement says nothing and thus my previous point remains true!!! Let me add 30-somethings who know liitle of reality as well!!!KarmaSutra said:Lest we not forget the 44 year olds who are festering this place with thier feces.
Or they keep their mouths shut and watch the circus from the stands. I speak out quite a bit obviously concidering my post count, but more often then not my statments go unheard or are soon forgotten. Do I think it's possible to build a player? Yes. Do I think the majority of the people who legitimately come here seeking said goal will ever make it? No chance. Effort and discipline are something that's lost over the internet. If these people had coaches or mentors in the actual world riding them to sucess then the might make it. For some even that wouldn't be enough, they'd quit just like the last 10 jobs that they had diffuculty in and resigned. Still over the field time is lost. It's far easier to fake sucess and pose for people providing self satisfaction vicariously using electronics.Last Man Standing said:Those who "know" have been banned and hence there are few who go against the false tripe regurgitated from the so-called "DJ Bible" by a handful of so-called "knowledgables'!!!!!!
PRMoon, yes, you are the exception - the reason there is very few responses to enlightened posts is because many of the guys here are very young and do not have much to add based on their experiences!! Older men tend to have more to say based on their experiences but sadly they have been banned and now whats left is the kiddies!!!PRMoon said:Or they keep their mouths shut and watch the circus from the stands. I speak out quite a bit obviously concidering my post count, but more often then not my statments go unheard or are soon forgotten. ...
Me, I spend days trying to sift through this garbage in the hopes there's one thing that will help me out or clue me in to what I do next..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.