"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Looks like you guys still suck.

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I've been avoiding this place for the last 3 months, and it looks like nothing has changed: The same ole losers, virgins, and wannabe pimps.

So suave is not the remedy.:woo:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CrunchyNut

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Thank you, person who has posted here over 2000 times!
 
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Could have done it four times last week if I wanted to with four different girls, but I choose not to, so at least I'm a virgin by choice, but feel cool I made myself a choice that I didn't have to pay for.

It's all about control over your life and getting to where you want with women and in general.

And where have you gone in the past three months?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm

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I could have done it a hundred times last week with a thousand girls! Lol!

you are not a virgin by choice, your a virgin because of your fears of losing your virginity. Having too much control is no better than having none. Both are extremes. Find a balance.
 

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Charm said:
you are not a virgin by choice, your a virgin because of your fears of losing your virginity.
He's right. You gave excuses such as 'your dad', or 'im not ready', 'shes not a girl I'd marry'.

Comeon Luke, you got the chance, did you ever read my theory?
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
I've been avoiding this place for the last 3 months, and it looks like nothing has changed: The same ole losers, virgins, and wannabe pimps.

So suave is not the remedy.:woo:
Thanks Mr Obvious.

Any more wisdom?
 

PRMoon

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what about those of us who are here to help or for entertainment value? I don't really have a lot to do in the mornings and sometimes later at night. My social life is pretty much maxed out. I mean I COULD spend more time in the field but I don't want to do to much more juggling.
 

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damn, one day back on regular posting and this site is making me deprest already. arrrrrr
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey, SF, remember I tried to kill you with my great idea about using a baseball bat to drive with when your foot was messed up?

Guess it didn’t work, you live. LOL

I recall you were using your bad foot as an attempt to get pity-sex from your gf. Did it work?
 

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Hahahahaaa. N1 Grinder.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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Self Mastery, you talk all about positivity; so why do u come back just to diss us.

and I think this is the third post I've seen like this in the last week.
if u hate sosuave and its so bad, why do u keep coming back? and why do u have over 2000 posts?
 

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Why do you idiots keep responding to him? He makes a post, and watches you dumbasses flip out over it.
 

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You're 'ard
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SELF-MASTERY said:
I've been avoiding this place for the last 3 months, and it looks like nothing has changed: The same ole losers, virgins, and wannabe pimps.

So suave is not the remedy.:woo:
Sosuave has been taken over by inept teenagers and 20-somethings that know nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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^^As long as I've been here that element has been here as well. You've got to figure less then 10% of the people here are actually as good as they say they are.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Sosuave has been taken over by inept teenagers and 20-somethings that know nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lest we not forget the 44 year olds who are festering this place with thier feces.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Lest we not forget the 44 year olds who are festering this place with thier feces.
Your statement says nothing and thus my previous point remains true!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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