Temptation
Don Juan
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This is a little something for those of you who are still uncomfortable about your appearance/still think ugly fat & bald (rolled into one even) men can't get with the hottest chicks.
So imagine this, you are in a room, it doesn't matter which room, and it is pretty dark. Right now you are in the female mind, the part which deals solely with attraction. Now look around you, all around the walls there are a number of switches, each has labels which you can just about make out the words on: Confidence, Humour, Challenging and other such things. Around you there are other guys, and they all seem to be clambering for the same switch which you can see is labelled 'looks'... Each of them try to turn it on in a way which is almost like "The Sword In The Stone." When they fail, you see them walk off looking ashamed. None of them pay any attention to these other switches, they are all just out of their reach. Then you get up in this dark room, and you find that you are taller than all of these other guys, you can put your hands up high, and as you walk through, you begin systematically turning on all of these other switches out of reach to the other guys: Confidence, one flick and it's on, and as you go on the room gets brighter and brighter until you can see perfectly. The looks switch isn't on, but it doesn't matter, the room is still bright, you can still see without it on. The other guys walk off defeated and feeling hopeless. But you did it, you didn't need to turn on the looks switch, the room was bright enough with all of the other things, and you realise that the looks switch, is just one switch, nothing more, nothing less.
For those of you who are like "What is this guy on about," I'd like to point out that this is purely metaphorical to help you understand easier, realise that you can 'light up the room' (get her attracted to you) without needing to use looks. Although looking the best YOU can, is still, in my opinion, pretty important.
Hope this can change your whole mindset on the issue,
Temptation
So imagine this, you are in a room, it doesn't matter which room, and it is pretty dark. Right now you are in the female mind, the part which deals solely with attraction. Now look around you, all around the walls there are a number of switches, each has labels which you can just about make out the words on: Confidence, Humour, Challenging and other such things. Around you there are other guys, and they all seem to be clambering for the same switch which you can see is labelled 'looks'... Each of them try to turn it on in a way which is almost like "The Sword In The Stone." When they fail, you see them walk off looking ashamed. None of them pay any attention to these other switches, they are all just out of their reach. Then you get up in this dark room, and you find that you are taller than all of these other guys, you can put your hands up high, and as you walk through, you begin systematically turning on all of these other switches out of reach to the other guys: Confidence, one flick and it's on, and as you go on the room gets brighter and brighter until you can see perfectly. The looks switch isn't on, but it doesn't matter, the room is still bright, you can still see without it on. The other guys walk off defeated and feeling hopeless. But you did it, you didn't need to turn on the looks switch, the room was bright enough with all of the other things, and you realise that the looks switch, is just one switch, nothing more, nothing less.
For those of you who are like "What is this guy on about," I'd like to point out that this is purely metaphorical to help you understand easier, realise that you can 'light up the room' (get her attracted to you) without needing to use looks. Although looking the best YOU can, is still, in my opinion, pretty important.
Hope this can change your whole mindset on the issue,
Temptation