“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dixonnormus

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is it just me or is the information in this site is starting to get inconsistent

People are saying that looks are the most important, but i definitely recall hearing that being the most accomplished person you can be is more important on this site. I know that you need more than looks coz i've killed attraction before by being a nob. Chicks have come up to me and tried to talk to me about some uninteresting topics. they must've been attracted to me to come up to me, a stranger, and talk about that useless sh!t. i pretty much gave them "fuk off" vibe and killed it. i think looks do matter but not to the extent that people have been posting in the threads. I think if u got some muscle on you then you're pretty much sorted on the looks department.why?

because first off: I do believe in soulmates but that everyone has more than one. For example, lets say Brad Pitt has 5,000,000 out of 3,000,000,000 coz of his looks, money, muscle etc. The other 2.5 billion chicks are not into him because... lets face it we can't actually say every single chick in the world is into one person. if he were to lose any of those qualities (looks, money etc.) his number of "soulmates" would decrease by sh*t loads. Now that we have established that not every chick is into Brad Pitt (some chicks like jonny depp over him), we pretty much proved that looks are subjective and so everyone should have people ("soulmates") who would be into them if they met, provided they are not fukin fat or skinny as fuk. Of course, some types of facial structures will be more preferred by chicks in general over others but that's why you increase those other qualities (money, achievements, muscle etc) to increase your number of "soulmates".

also i've been hearing that you can't create attraction. sounds logical, however, i've heard people give advice saying: "don't txt/call her for a while. you gotta wait for her to become attracted to you." i think people might be wrong about the fact that attraction can't be created. Because if you try to remember back to your teenage years some of you may find that there were a few classmates at school that you weren't attracted to but once you got to know them, you wanted to fuk them even though you knew you could do better (plz tell me this wasn't just me :nervous: ). also if what i said above is true, about increasing muscle, etc to increase number of "soulmates", then you are effectively creating attraction in people you have yet to meet.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alex DeLarge

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You don't have to be the best looking guy in the world to have women attracted to you. I have some acne, not an incredibly "masculine" face (Not a strong jawline, but I do have facial hair). But I have cool style and swag. Pretty laidback yet interested in conversation too.

If you have muscles and great looks that's awesome, but it's not gonna mean sh1t if you have no style. (Ex: Jacked dude wearing cheap sneakers, mismatched socks, basketball shorts, and a nerdy video game tee shirt). You're style says a lot to a woman whether you are physically hot or not, which can increase attractiveness.

Like you said before though, it's all subjective. I've had HB8s chase me, and I've had HB6s reject me. If you have a huge ego, sh1t like this will definitely get in the way of your success.. (Ex: Well that HB6 rejected me, so that HB8 will DEFINITELY reject me).. While the thinking may seem logical, it's completely illogical because everyone has their own personal views on you. You just have to roll with the punches and understand everyone is a different person. Not all women are shallow slut5, and not all women are wife capable, not all women give out their number to strangers (no matter how hot they are), and some women may seem b1tchy, but they're actually really nice to be around once you get to know them.
 

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dixonnormus said:
is it just me or is the information in this site is starting to get inconsistent

People are saying that looks are the most important, but i definitely recall hearing that being the most accomplished person you can be is more important on this site.
This site consists of thousands of people offering millions of opinions.

You're not supposed to hear "consistent" things. You're going to hear opinions and discussions, and you're going to take the pieces of it that suit your style, and apply it to your life.
 
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