"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks getting in the way

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I have realized that I have a problem when I go out. Before I go I always make sure that I look the absolute best that I can, you know the hair, the pants, the shirt, and the attitude. But here lately I have been so consumed in the worrying about the way that I look that I can't relax and try and communicate with girls.

I guess I just think that as the night goes on that my hair will mess up or something of that nature and it will mess up my game.
 

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ya your inner and mental game sucks

you've gotta make sure you look good just once, and then not think about it the rest of the day

you've gotta work on this yourself..gotta progress..go out sarging one day without being fresh as you usually are..keep on doing that
 
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Ok I have something else to add after I-am-someone gave me that link. When I don't fix my hair or think I look good, my self esteem goes down. I don't wanna see anyone or have face to face conversation with anyone especially women. So it would seem to me that if my self esteem goes down, then I'm not gonna look confident. And isn't confidence everything?
 
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