Looks fvcking matter!!!!

[Stagger Lee]

I propose a question regarding the quality of women on there.

So the concesus is that all/most women online are c0ck riding cvm dumpster wh0res. At the same time you guys are spamming hundreds of women a week and maybe 15% of them respond to you and ultimately maybe 5% end up screwing you. So what do you make of the other 80-90% of women on there? Do you think they are just responding to other guys who are using the same tactics as you? Or could it be possible that a large chunk of women on there are not slutty? Maybe some of them are painfully shy IRL and online is their best option for meeting someone.

Women have a qualified sex drive or qualified slvtiness. They are only as slvtty as the guy is attractive. I think OKcupid research showed that the best looking guys had like a 70% response rate. And while it's true that even the best looking guys may have 10, 20,30% lay ratio that's really meaningless. The ease and quickness that a good looking guy can't get a lay with a girl is the important point.

 

[nismo-4]

A man's online dating profile is only as strong as his WORST picture.

~Judge nismo~

 

[In2theGame]

Ah... the Online dating domain. Its all about looks when it comes to online no doubt about it. I havent done an online profile in a long time but when i did back in the day (Myspace) i was loaded with female friends and many looking to hang out with me. I remember this one girl messaging me omg ur so hot, i ended up talkin on the phone with her and she ends up sending me pics of her naked and spread out if u know what i mean. The very last girl i was going to hook up with was this hot asian girl but crazy as it sounds.... I met my LTR on there. She messaged me one day saying "Hey Cutie!", I thought she was cute, not super hot but i gave her a shot and eventually when we hung out, we clicked amazingly and she became my GF of 5 years who i almost married.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I'm curious to see what does the profile looks like. The pictures and all.

Let me see it, lets see if these "standards" are even attainable for me.

I'm really fvcking tired to tell you the truth. I work extremely hard for over a year improving myself mentally and physically (literally from piggy to ripped dude) and still waiting to swipe my v card. And this is happening while the most ugliest and whales out there have plenty of options to choose.

Seriously, If its a God-like body they want they'll get it. I'll workout and eat extremely harder. I'll play by their rules, fine... but I swear to you, I'm going to have them wrapped around my finger; I'll drain out all of their energy resources and then I'm going to be MERCILESS EXECUTOR and will dump and shame these skanks after I'm done with them.

I'm EXACTLY going to aim for that. Just show me that profile.

So you worked hard for over a year to improve yourself for you...or to improve yourself for validation from chicks and a loss of your V card? Think about how ridiculous that sounds and how your fantasy thoughts about how they are has you wrapped around their finger for a piece.

You look fine in the body dept. No homo. Just keep working out for you. Improve yourself for you. Meet people and treat them as people not objects you need to "get" for some sort of validation to a low self esteem or they WILL let you down to whatever fantasy belief or standard you've held them to in your mind. (Since you seem consumed to improve to "get" some.)

Your first time having sex won't be so mind blowing as you think it will.

Get all the PUA or DJ nonsense BS out of your head and just act NORMAL and meet and talk to chicks NORMALLY. No over the top effort is needed.

Treat conversations with chicks as like you are talking to some old couple online in a store, some clerk at a store or whatever where you aren't trying to pick them up but just having a NORMAL conversation. Don't be outcome dependant.

Smile, dress, groom and look your best and just keep meeting and keeping your insecurities, ego, and trying to act over the top to "impress" chicks in check.

Believe me it's not that hard. You just have to get used to meeting many chicks and talking to them seeing where they're at. Knowing what qualities you like in them as a PERSON not an OBJECT you need to "possess".

Take a part time job in a high end dept store where you'll meet new chicks everyday and get paid rather than spending money to meet them.

Most dudes on here are butthurt, bitter, and some are obviously clueless how to deal with or even meet chicks and over analize every thing they or the chick does.

Keep it in control. It's really not that hard as you think it is.

 

[Mr. Suave]

So you worked hard for over a year to improve yourself for you...or to improve yourself for validation from chicks and a loss of your V card?

Don't kid yourself. The need for reproduction (well for us now, mostly just sex in general) is huge for us. It's natural for a guy to want to present himself in a way which is most attractive to the opposite sex. Like a peacock displaying his feathers. It's good that guys like to improve their "feathers" as it were.

To say otherwise is as annoying as those fat chicks who sit there all obese like: "he better love me for who I am or he doesn't deserve me! I'm happy being this way!", things don't work like that. You want to become physically attractive to women you might have to put in a lot of effort to get there.