"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Looks Determined by **** Your Wearing?

SexinEar

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LOL I ment for the title to be Looks Determined by SHIRT YOUR WEARING, srry.
It feels like I have shirts that make me look like absolute sh!t and shirts that make me look good. Anyone else notice this or am I a fuc*ing looney ball. I waste a lot of money on clothes I dont wear bc most of my shirts randomly make me look like sh!t.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Centaurion

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Nah, you're not alone.

I look like sh!t when wearing simple tshirts and shorts, but once the suit comes on I can give Brad ****ing Pitt a run for his money.
 

ORTIZ SANCHEZ

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i had girls tell me i like you how you look in this shirt or that shirt looks "weird" on you so i guess a shirt does have a lot to do with and the type of chick you want to impress like there is chicks who like polo shirts some who like southpole shirts . i think shirts are important its like the 1st thing chicks notice your face than your shirt than your whole body
 

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I think its really important to find clothes that match your innate style and wear what you're comfortable in.

For myself, I have a very difficult time finding clothes that fit me due to my weird measurements...and having to get dress shirts, etc tailored after you buy em is a huge pain. So I prefer to dress down unless I have to. I think comfort = confidence when it comes to clothes.

Also I think being fit is crucial. You can look great in crap clothing if you have a great build.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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