"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks Determined by **** Your Wearing?

SexinEar

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LOL I ment for the title to be Looks Determined by SHIRT YOUR WEARING, srry.
It feels like I have shirts that make me look like absolute sh!t and shirts that make me look good. Anyone else notice this or am I a fuc*ing looney ball. I waste a lot of money on clothes I dont wear bc most of my shirts randomly make me look like sh!t.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Centaurion

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Nah, you're not alone.

I look like sh!t when wearing simple tshirts and shorts, but once the suit comes on I can give Brad ****ing Pitt a run for his money.
 

ORTIZ SANCHEZ

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i had girls tell me i like you how you look in this shirt or that shirt looks "weird" on you so i guess a shirt does have a lot to do with and the type of chick you want to impress like there is chicks who like polo shirts some who like southpole shirts . i think shirts are important its like the 1st thing chicks notice your face than your shirt than your whole body
 

Fuglydude

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I think its really important to find clothes that match your innate style and wear what you're comfortable in.

For myself, I have a very difficult time finding clothes that fit me due to my weird measurements...and having to get dress shirts, etc tailored after you buy em is a huge pain. So I prefer to dress down unless I have to. I think comfort = confidence when it comes to clothes.

Also I think being fit is crucial. You can look great in crap clothing if you have a great build.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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