"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ricorico

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Of course the good looking poor guy will be taken a lot less seriously. Any man with no goals or ambition will not be taken seriously.
Noone ever said otherwise. You need to be the whole package.

But looks go a long way, and women are shallow cause that good looking poor guy will get laid easy than any average guy. Most of the times, by women who already have husbands or boyfriends.The same type of women who marry a guy they are not attracted to because he has money or a good carreeer will sleep with the dumb good looking guys they are attracted to even if he has no money. Or a rich girl(ex: Tori Spelling ) can now buy this good looking guy because he is not goal oriented and she feels somewhat superior. I agree, pretty Shallow on the women's part.

On the same token, I would'nt want to date some of the women who are only interested in guys who treat them bad and are unreliable, or women who only respond to ****y attitudes and putdowns. To me, that also represents low self esteem issues. That sort of women is only good to play with. Long term she will be a flake.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why your looks matter

Imagine that This guytried to AMOG you. Your built-in sensors scream this is a low value guy who doesn't have a clue how to be cool. His value is so obviously low that pretty much anything he tried to do would be laughed at. Next, you'd probably give him a wedgie while all your buddies fell on the floor laughing their asses off. Girls might say *thats mean* while laughing themselves. Get it.. this guy doesn't get it. He has 0% value. He is a waste of space and he has not given himself permission to be cool and it shows. Take this guy and put some blue band thingies in his hair shag it out, send his ass to the gym, make him do motorcross, turn him into a bad boy, and change his attire and he will instantely get more respect from both men and women.

Now let's say This guy busts in on your set or just snubs you in general conversation. It's going to be more irritating because he is likely to have some social value.

I feel dirty just looking at guys pics, but I knew some guys still wouldn't get it without them.
 

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Looks thread AGAIN?
 

everywomanshero

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It's not so much looks as sense of style and giving yourself permission to be cool with hair/clothes/attitude. Looks in the sense of what you are born with being it and never trying to improve is a waste of time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Personally, I'd rather have guy #1 in my group than #2

As soon as #2 starts to AMOG me though, his reputation would grow faster because than he means business. If the first guy did it, the sensation of his sense of fun would take over. If #1 could AMOG guy #2 through laughter, guy#2 would be dust. I wouldn't even look twice out of fear or consideration in his direction...

everywomanshero, I'm guessing you consider yourself a pretty boy, but are still self-concious of how well your personality can pull a girl.

In response to your deleted message that I did not have a chance to read.... Guy #1 appears as though he has a larger social circle than guy #2
 

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What the hell does AMOG stands for?
 

flippinfreak

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paraguayandj said:
What the hell does AMOG stands for?
go read te DJ Bible(links on the bottom of the page)
 

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Ha ha,

I had no idea that Dawson had a pic up on hotornot.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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That is me in the first pic, and i am actualy a bada$$ stud!
 

The_flying_dutchman

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As long as you're not rediculously overweight or have missing teeth, you'll be fine in terms of looks. Hell look at Seal, he's ugly as hell yet he's banging Heidi Klum. Why? Because he's got confidence and charm. Chicks dig that.

As for the pictures, although I'd say that the second guy is better looking, I'd bet money that he's your typical Abercrombie pansy and girls would tire of him after three days.
 

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they both looks like pu$$ies, id kick both their asses if they "AMOGd" me or wutever u call it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'd rather workout,buy clothes and build up my social proof then try and do half the things that are commpnplace here.Like cold approaches,neg hits,ect.It's all bs unless the girl is attracted to you.

Where i'm from if a girl is a 8 and up and you're somewhere around 6 and 7...?

You better have money or muscles cuz she's not even gonna look at you unless you kiss her ass.
 

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MysteryWoman is right, and if you disagree, then go read the #1 rated THreat in the TIPS section thats by Pook....he says somethin along the lines of looks mattering when dealing with beautiful women
 

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MysteryWoman said exactly what I said.

You think you see ugly with hot but you can't rate guys so your obviously going to rate him way low and your probally horny so you'll rate her real high. When in reality they are both just average.

It all comes down to looks in the end. Still you have to have to balls to go for it either way but in the end it all comes down to -> You want *****, she wants ****.

Stop with the AFC, DJ. The only diffrence between the two is the DJ has confidence goes for it, not his amazing "skills".
 

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I KNOW wat good looks is to a girl:

1)built body
2)nice eyes (they LOVE the eye contact)
3)big ****

Also, possibly nice abs and also how a guy dressed, but those top 3 are most important....

SO next time u see a guy who u think is average with a HOT woman, if you REALLY wanna know why shes with him, why dont u look into his eyes and take a look into his pants....LMAO....seriously, thats why guys cant rate guys looks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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