"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking to get in shape at home, with limited equipment

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Hi all,

This is my first post on this website. I've been an avid reader of the material posted here (I've been trolling for two years), and I only recently became a member.

As my journey towards self-improvement is now beginning, I have decided to start paying attention to my body and health.

I am a 17 year old high school senior. I know that you guys stress going to the gym a lot, but I am unable to do this. To join a gym, one must be 18. I have asked my parents if they would let me join when I'm of age, but we really don't have the money to pay for membership, especially since I'll be off to college next year.

However, I did not let this deter me. One of my friends had an old bench press and two dumbbells that he gave to me. I have 100 pounds of weight right now, and I can certainly purchase more, but as it stands, I am pretty weak, and I doubt I can even bench press 100 lbs.

Furthermore, I know how much you guys stress the big compound exercises: bench press, dead lifts, and squats. I can do the bench press and the dead lifts, but I have no safe way of doing squats as I have no squat rack.

So here are my major questions for you!

I need some help modifying the lifting programs on this site to fit my circumstances. Are there effective alternatives to squats (or a different type of squat) that I will be able to safely do?

Also diet suggestions would be great as well. One great thing about my parents is that they will pay for healthy food.

If you guys need any further information to help me out, I would be glad to provide anything.

Essentially, my goals are to build more strength, improve my appearance, and just become more muscular and lose some body fat.

Thank you!

EDIT: I just remembered, I am pretty sure I can do pull ups in my garage by using a support beam in there. I would only be able to do the kind with the back of my hands facing me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Find yourself a barbell and some plates i'd say 2 of each for now (5lbs,10lbs,25lbs,45lbs)

With that you can do bench press variations, curls, rows, hack squats, deadlift variations, standing military press,upright rows, shrugs, skull cruchers, Glute Ham Raises, even some calf work.
 

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Thanks for the reply EFFORT. I forgot to mention that I have a barbell. I'll see what I can do about getting those weights.

So how should I go about organizing this into a plan? I'm thinking a three day split would be best...
 

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Surely there will be a gym at the college you go to next year...
 

EFFORT

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I would do the rippetoe program just replace squats with hack squats
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shaunuk

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Yeah man, just scrounge some weight plates at a garage sale, and since you're not lifting a lot right now,you'll be alright for a decent while :)

You can do basically every exercise with what you have, go for it. If you're into making stuff, you could make some supports to catch the bar if you fail when squatting :)
 

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It looks like you have somewhat near enough equipment in all to sustain you until you get to college and the gyms they have. You can practice your deadlift technique w/the light weights 1st maybe, but you can definately do lunges with the barbell for your legs. I have around 600 lbs. of free weight in my basement, a squat rack and a bench that can adjust from decline through military press. While it is great not having to wait to use the weights and workout in privacy, I still never have a spotter and that's what I have 2 deal with. And yes the Rosstraining nevergymless manual is amazing, it helped me get back into shape and helped my brother to become a firefighter.
 

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Thanks for everything guys. I really appreciate the support.

Yes, when I get to college I will definitely use the gym and other health facilities that are available to me. I think I am going to start the Rippetoe program with hack squats as EFFORT suggested.

Still, I will definitely check out the other options posted here for suggestions.

When I initiate my plan next Monday (this week is crazy with tests for some reason) I'm going to start a journal.

Thanks!
 
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