Looking to find Filipina girl to marry and trying mail order websites. Should I pursue?

[Onlytogether28]

I’m a retired military man looking to settle down and marry a nice filipina girl. I’ve been divorced twice while I was active, and the reason why it never worked out is because I was away too much. I have 5 children from previous marriages, but they’re adults now. I’m close to most of them and I know there won’t be any issues if I decide to marry again. I’m done with work and what I want now is to spend the rest of my retirement quietly with someone.

The reason why I want a filipina wife is because they’re known to be hospitable, respectful, and loving. I personally know many filipinos and friends who’ve been married to their filipina wives. I am envious that even after many years of marriage, no matter the marital problems, they remain strong and I honestly want that for myself. They also seem to be so caring that my friends, their foreign husbands are treated like kings in their own home.

I don’t expect my future filipina wife to work of course. I have my pension and decent bank savings so I think we’ll be okay, financially speaking, as long there won’t be any big purchases in the future. I’m considering opening up a business, but we’ll have to see if anything goes to plan. Speaking of finances, I have some few questions about filipina women. Now I know that they’re traditional and all that and they’re very close to their families. Is it true that if I marry one of them, I automatically adopt their whole family?

This seems to be the hurdle I’m trying to overcome. I’ve been trying out several mail order websites and what stood out the most is the one by AFA. I have read some reviews and there seems to be no shortage of filipina women I can get to know and contact there. However, I really wanna know that if I want to marry a filipina, I also pay for her family?

I probably should talk to the filipina wives of my friends but it seems to be rude or personal so I’m on this forum to ask for help. Do you think it is a great idea to try online dating a filipina and ask her if she expects for me to pay for her family if we like each other enough to marry? Or is it too rude? Please advice. Thanks in advance

 

[Fireballs]

I work with some Filipino's and their wives treat them like kings .. however if you marry a Filipina, you WILL will be expected to send her family money.

 

[Von]

Filipina's are quite flirty and quite coming strong on you

Yes, you will adopt her whole family... it's like that in Asian cultures, any asian culture... however some culture due to the ''poornest'' of the economy will ask you direct financial support.

You might want to live in Asia to live on your pension without any financial stress.... Or you might want to go in the Fidji (you can live a whole day with just 10$).

A Filipina or any asian chicks... likely will ask you to marry her after 1 year of dating or living together. It's cultural and to lock you down (or her)... some are open to their husband having mistresses as long it's not public.

Asian girls are like any western girls really... but they expect to be provided and their family to be supported in exchange they do have this ''I am the wife so I support my husband at all cost mentality''