"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i never fear eye contact. i hold it as long as i want. but sometimes it just gets a little weird, especially when your close. because far away, theres less magnification but closeup, well everything is bigger.
what im saying is that when youre close, what exactly do you look at. because its harder to look at "the eyes" when yorue up close as opposed to looking into 1 eye. and sometimes i feel funny when im just looking into one eye...lol.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hold direct eye contact as long as possible, but without being creepy.

If you're addressing members of a set, rotate your eye contact with the different members of the set.

If you have an issue with looking into her eyes, just look at the bridge of her nose, the appearance will be the same, unless you're practically touching noses.

Besides, while EC is very very good, staring to much can be well . . . creepy to people.

Just keep practicing.
 
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kickureface said:
i never fear eye contact. i hold it as long as i want. but sometimes it just gets a little weird, especially when your close. because far away, theres less magnification but closeup, well everything is bigger.
what im saying is that when youre close, what exactly do you look at. because its harder to look at "the eyes" when yorue up close as opposed to looking into 1 eye. and sometimes i feel funny when im just looking into one eye...lol.
how are your experiences?
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If really close, look deep into pupil shifting from one eye to another slowly, penetrating like a laser beem. Nothing too intense. Just gaze like you looking at the sunset.
 
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i have no prob with holding eye contact, im jsut confused as to what to do when we're really close and you cant really focus on "The eyes" in general since your closeness forces you to look at her one eye and see her other eye in peripheral vision
so oyure suggesting i look at one, then shift?
 
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kickureface said:
i have no prob with holding eye contact, im jsut confused as to what to do when we're really close and you cant really focus on "The eyes" in general since your closeness forces you to look at her one eye and see her other eye in peripheral vision
so oyure suggesting i look at one, then shift?
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You're over analyzing. If you're that close, just close your eyes and go for the kiss.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yea i know that but sometimes were just talking. haha. just curious.
 
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