Im a junior in high school. In my group of friends, im the second or third best looking - (the best looking are twins). My problem is that - any girl that meets these guys, she seemingly - automatically wants to have sex with them, and everyone else in the group pretty much gets ignored by the girls for the rest of the party or day or whatever. I do my best to look good - and i dont have any real confidence problems or anything. This site talks mostly of mental techniques, and its helped me get over shyness and such problems, but what do i do about these guys? These are my good friends and my connection to most other people and parties and such, so without them - ill be bored and will probably have an even harder time meeting girls... Every once and a while, i get attention from girls, but these guys are like perfect 10's, and they generally take all the attention... Im nice to the girls, but i am not a 'nice guy'. I cant play hard to get or things like that - because the girls wont care - theyll just keep trying to seduce the twins... I box and i know how to fight, so i dont take sh*t from people and i work out - but i wouldnt go so far as to call myself the alpha-male - our group doesnt really have one. These guys get all the attention from the girls... What should i do? [email protected]
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whats with the j or hj? jack or hand job?
Bros before hoes. Dont lose theri friendship just cause they are getting the girls
Go to a party with them but then go to a different part of the party, and meet a girl solo when they arent around. Or just try to meet girls in other places, and once you have em then introduce them to the twins.
Bros before hoes. Dont lose theri friendship just cause they are getting the girls
Go to a party with them but then go to a different part of the party, and meet a girl solo when they arent around. Or just try to meet girls in other places, and once you have em then introduce them to the twins.
lol - i didnt mean to make poll. those are random letters. We have two high schools - a whole lot of people - and most of the girls already know these guys. I never go to out of town parties, so 90% of the girls already have boyfriends or whatever, and i think if i were to introduce a girl to one of these guys, id get the same result. I wouldnt leave my friends, but its really depressing - to have this happen time after time - every time we go out... I also have pretty high standards, so the girls im attracted to are attracted to the twins...
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Yeah, one of my best friends is like that too. In my group of friends he's the one that gets us into the most parties, and most girls think he's really hot. While it's true I'm sometimes overshadowed by him because of this, I'm not gonna drop him as a friend because he's a really good guy and I like him. Plus, I probably meet more girls from hanging around with him than I would if I didn't.
Aznkid1030
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That happens to me too ...you could probably ask them to lay off of a girl you have your eye on...maybe they'll understand 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dannowillbookem
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be alpha male.