"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Looking Good

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G'day

after finding this site last month I made the decision to irrevocably change my life for the better. After picking up tips from these forums my success with the ladies has soared up, my popularity (yup, still stuck in the drudgery of compulsory education) has risen and I've been working out the proper way and seeing welcome results.

One thing that has rapidly shot into my consciousness is that image plays a massive part in not only the attraction process, but also in self image and confidence building and I'm guessing a part of this is how you look after your hair/nails/skin.

What I'm looking for is a guide or a list that details what I want to get hold of and where to buy it. I'm thinking mousturisers, cremes, whatever. What health/beauty products would you reccomend to look good?

Thanks in advance

Adam
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JohnnyIrish

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I use dove moistureizing soap for the shower and cetaphil to wash my face.

Other then that I definitely recomend the crystal deodorant.

Also if you eat right (i.e. not crap foods) you'll have better skin (and well.. be in better health generally to boot).

Finally.. since the topic is to look good, I recomend lifting weights to build muscle (unless you are really 15.. I'm thinking your not).
 

Mr. Me

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Men's Health magazine has articles along those lines, though you'd want to avoid going overboard and becoming metrosexual...

One big tip I got years ago and have been applying daily since really has helped. Keep your face moisturized with any decent moisturizing cream. It seems to help slow down the aging process. I've been doing that literally every day since about 18 years ago, and have gotten compliments about my skin numerous times down through the years.

Fish oil is good to take as well!
 

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JohnnyIrish said:
Finally.. since the topic is to look good, I recomend lifting weights to build muscle (unless you are really 15.. I'm thinking your
not).
What's wrong with lifting at 15?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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xilley said:
i am 14 and i am lifting weights.
is that wrong?
no.
some people will tell you it will stunt growth and blah blah blah but there has never been a study to actually reflect on this, it's just a myth
 

JohnnyIrish

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Quagmire911 said:
What's wrong with lifting at 15?
Funny.. I recalled the old incorrect information for a second there (the old wives tale that working out that young inhibits growth, which I remember since reading an informative artical explaining how that was total BS).

So no.. to my knowledge there is nothing wrong with lifting at that age.
 
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