"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Don Juan
The road to player nirvana is a long one, so pack your handy "Book of Pook," a box of condoms, and a pair of balls.
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Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Going out to mack in about 10 minutes at one of the bars in the city. No mojo though, at the moment.. even after f-closing a HB8 last night.. Argentina is losing 0-3.. they lost to Germany in 2006 too... I remember that night!! Arghhhh ...anyways I'm always down to hash the game and have been working on it lately too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Joseflee
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Please let me know in brief.
Thanks
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Don Juan
I will keep this short
Girl 1: I had a family BBQ on Saturday and decided to go out after. I was a bit tipsy from some wine I had. I met up with my friend and he brought two girls with him. Both girls were really cute, I couldn't decide which one I wanted, so I just danced and see which one I vibed with better. At first, they were both liking my dance steps, but the blond started flirting with me hardcore. She could not stop playing with her hair and never let the conversation stop on the dance floor. It is amazing how much you see everything on here really play out. I decided to isolate her by saying I was really hot and we should take this outside. We went outside on the couches and started talking. I kinoed her by touching her leg. After a bit, I made my move in, and she moved away saying she thought I was hot and had good game, but she started seeing someone. I cooly said it is ok and stayed with her. I know I should have left, but I kept gaming her, and she started snuggling with me and holding my hand.
Girl 2: I had a pool party today and girl 1 came. My friend brought a girl she worked with. GIRL 2 was much more quiet but I gamed her and talked about life...a lot of DHV's for myself. I said we should sky dive together and she said yes...she loves thrills like me. She also appreciated my sense of adventure.