"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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silkkster

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Hi, first time poster, avider reader! so ill just dive into it! Well this about 2 women. First off, one is one of my classes (btw i am a junior in college)...so the one in one of my classes, well first off i could tell she had some interest, because of the constant looking @ me and winking and what not - okay so then one day she just handed me her phone and had me put my number in ther - so thats how i got her number, kinda of odd but hey... so.. she is the type who chats online, so we talk on there - i asked he out for coffee and she said yes, but then about 20min later asked if i wanted to come over to her apartment and watch a movie with her roomates, and i said yes... so then the next days i asked her out a few times, about 2 or 3 and she said she was busy each time - so i was like okay cool what ever, ill kinda mess with her... so she asked me to help her out with something, and i told her i was busy, been telling her i am busy this whole week - and well tonight she called me and wants to get together this weekend (she wants to come over to my apt. and we can work on our hw tog and watch a movie...) - <-- so what do you think on that? , is she interested or what? im just a little confused on her!

ok next!
this other girl works with me. weve talked on the phone a few times but nothing all to awsome. So the other day before our staff meeting i saw her sitting alone and talking on the phone, so i walked up to her waved and said hi, asked who she was talkin to - was her sisters birthday - i told her to tell her sister hi for me and im sorry i didnt get her a gift (i dont know her sister at all) and she seemed to like that. so i was already in the room for our meeting and she came and sat next to me and we talked - i asked what she was doing this weekend, she was working at the art museum trhis weekend - then she said i should come to the museum cause of some exibit, i dont know - but she asked me to come up there -<-- any thoughts on that one? just trying to gauge the situation


For both of these women, i have seen most of the signs of interst/attraction = seen the her checking me out, smiling alot, eye contace, playful touching.

thanks all!
 

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FreeStyleZ

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Hi, first time poster, avider reader! so ill just dive into it! Well this about 2 women. First off, one is one of my classes (btw i am a junior in college)...so the one in one of my classes, well first off i could tell she had some interest, because of the constant looking @ me and winking and what not - okay so then one day she just handed me her phone and had me put my number in ther - so thats how i got her number, kinda of odd but hey... so.. she is the type who chats online, so we talk on there - i asked he out for coffee and she said yes, but then about 20min later asked if i wanted to come over to her apartment and watch a movie with her roomates, and i said yes... so then the next days i asked her out a few times, about 2 or 3 and she said she was busy each time - so i was like okay cool what ever, ill kinda mess with her... so she asked me to help her out with something, and i told her i was busy, been telling her i am busy this whole week - and well tonight she called me and wants to get together this weekend (she wants to come over to my apt. and we can work on our hw tog and watch a movie...) - <-- so what do you think on that? , is she interested or what? im just a little confused on her!
Do you want her to just tell you on the phone "hey let me come over and suck your ****" or can you read between the lines. Dawg.. its obvious she wants you and if you invite her over and make a move you'll find out.
 

skinnydart

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Wow, I don't even think "reading between the lines" is nessesary on that one.
 
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