jnice48146
Don Juan
Ok, its like this; I have a close female friend (we'll call her "H"), her BFF sees my pics on her camera and thinks I'm "yummy", asks to meet me. I get with "H", her BF, and another couple @ a bar. The BFF meets us there.
We have a couple drinks, then we all venue change. I isolate BFF and we're talking, definitely clicking. Everyone else leaves, she and I close the bar 2 hours later. I ask her to follow me home, she agrees.
I tell her I had fun, and to give me her #. She agrees, then goes to hug me. I hug her, then kiss close. She's likes it, is kissing back, she starts with the tongue a little. I'm thinking f-close all the way........then her phone goes off! She doesn't answer but says she has to go, kisses me on the cheek and goes.
I called her 2 days later and no answer. No problem, called another HB, gotta spin those plates. She calls me back the next day and tells me that she had fun, and is attracted to me, BUT she's 2 weeks out of an LTR, and doesn't know exactly where she stands with the guy, etc. I tell her that's cool, but I had called her the day before to see if she was free later in the week. I say if she's got other things going on maybe some other time and tell her I've gotta go.
SHE PANICS! She says " No, I do want to spend some time with you, I just don't want to confuse myself. I just want to be honest with you that I do have some stuff going on in my life. Maybe if we hang out together with "H" and her BF, would that be ok?" I say we'll talk about it later, I really gotta go.
"H" and I go out 3 days later and BFF shows up, sits next to me, lots of eye contact, touching, laughing, etc. We venue change and meet more friends, close the bar again. She and "H" come to my place. I set "H" up on the sofa and BFF and I go out to the balcony and talk. We make out for a minute or two, then SHE'S GOTTA GO! I walk her to the car, kiss her, and she goes. I've since talked to "H" and she says I'm all the BFF talks about.
So obviously this girl is interested. She texts and calls me at least every other day. When we kiss I feel her heartbeat accelerate. "H" tells me that BFF asks her to ask me out to the bar, so that she can come along. So WTF? Is this just her way of staying outta the sack with me? If so, why? So I won't think she's a slut? I don't think she's playing a malicious game, and I trust "H" when she tells me BFF isn't like that, but if anyone can offer some insight or a different perspective I'd appreciate it.
Thanks!
We have a couple drinks, then we all venue change. I isolate BFF and we're talking, definitely clicking. Everyone else leaves, she and I close the bar 2 hours later. I ask her to follow me home, she agrees.
I tell her I had fun, and to give me her #. She agrees, then goes to hug me. I hug her, then kiss close. She's likes it, is kissing back, she starts with the tongue a little. I'm thinking f-close all the way........then her phone goes off! She doesn't answer but says she has to go, kisses me on the cheek and goes.
I called her 2 days later and no answer. No problem, called another HB, gotta spin those plates. She calls me back the next day and tells me that she had fun, and is attracted to me, BUT she's 2 weeks out of an LTR, and doesn't know exactly where she stands with the guy, etc. I tell her that's cool, but I had called her the day before to see if she was free later in the week. I say if she's got other things going on maybe some other time and tell her I've gotta go.
SHE PANICS! She says " No, I do want to spend some time with you, I just don't want to confuse myself. I just want to be honest with you that I do have some stuff going on in my life. Maybe if we hang out together with "H" and her BF, would that be ok?" I say we'll talk about it later, I really gotta go.
"H" and I go out 3 days later and BFF shows up, sits next to me, lots of eye contact, touching, laughing, etc. We venue change and meet more friends, close the bar again. She and "H" come to my place. I set "H" up on the sofa and BFF and I go out to the balcony and talk. We make out for a minute or two, then SHE'S GOTTA GO! I walk her to the car, kiss her, and she goes. I've since talked to "H" and she says I'm all the BFF talks about.
So obviously this girl is interested. She texts and calls me at least every other day. When we kiss I feel her heartbeat accelerate. "H" tells me that BFF asks her to ask me out to the bar, so that she can come along. So WTF? Is this just her way of staying outta the sack with me? If so, why? So I won't think she's a slut? I don't think she's playing a malicious game, and I trust "H" when she tells me BFF isn't like that, but if anyone can offer some insight or a different perspective I'd appreciate it.
Thanks!