"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Paintballguy

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I am taking this HB8 out on the 3rd date tomorrow night and wanted to get some more ideas on what to do. The only thing I planned so far is going to dinner. Outside things are out of the questions because its getting cold and dark earlier.

I was maybe thinking after dinner; taking her back to my place to watch a movie. Or maybe try the hot tub....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dannyrt34

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dude, so what if it's getting colder. You can keep her warm. I can't tell you where to take her, because I don't know what interesting places are in your area. But I usually enjoy going to the city, and walking around just checking out random places we pass.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Take her back to your place, carve pumpkins, pleasure her.

Oh, wait...did you say hot tub? In that case, hot tub -> sex
 

donjuanjovi

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I think the hot tub is a no brainer.
 

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I love this time of year for dates!

A personal favorite of mine is...haunted houses or scary corn mazes (yes I live in Colorado). First of all, the good ones are scary and fun, and if you take your date there, you are guaranteed quality kino, and she'll associate the heightened states of emotions with you, which is a good thing. Do a little reaseach and see what the best haunted houses are in your area.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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