"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paintballguy

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I am taking this HB8 out on the 3rd date tomorrow night and wanted to get some more ideas on what to do. The only thing I planned so far is going to dinner. Outside things are out of the questions because its getting cold and dark earlier.

I was maybe thinking after dinner; taking her back to my place to watch a movie. Or maybe try the hot tub....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dannyrt34

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dude, so what if it's getting colder. You can keep her warm. I can't tell you where to take her, because I don't know what interesting places are in your area. But I usually enjoy going to the city, and walking around just checking out random places we pass.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Take her back to your place, carve pumpkins, pleasure her.

Oh, wait...did you say hot tub? In that case, hot tub -> sex
 

donjuanjovi

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I think the hot tub is a no brainer.
 

Serialized3

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I love this time of year for dates!

A personal favorite of mine is...haunted houses or scary corn mazes (yes I live in Colorado). First of all, the good ones are scary and fun, and if you take your date there, you are guaranteed quality kino, and she'll associate the heightened states of emotions with you, which is a good thing. Do a little reaseach and see what the best haunted houses are in your area.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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