You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
This is exactly what I am talking bout. BPH is making mistakes, but also does some things right. The decent thing to do is try and help him, instead you just hurl insults at him. People behave this way because they want to drag others down to their level. You just make things worse.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I don't. Everybody has problems. By comparison, I have very few; I don't have any diseases, ailments, or disabilities. I was not abused, traumatized, or part of a dysfunctional family. I don't have any addictions or drug habits, and the only medication I take is a multivitamin. My problem is my financial and living situation - hers is her health and mental outlook. I don't expect anyone to be perfect.
I have a friend who asked me a similar question. He knows I get around a lot and asked me why, instead of going for hot girls, I don't go for girls with great personalities. He's married, so here was my response to him: "If you could have your wife's personality in the body of Jessica Alba or the body of Rosie O'Donnell, which would you choose?" He couldn't answer my question because he didn't want to prove my point. That point is that I meet women I'm attracted to, then keep them around if I like them on the back-end - I'm not hunting for girls I'm not attracted to in the hopes that because they're not attractive they must have a great personality.
I met this girl my senior year of college while she was a sophomore or junior; I can't remember. We met during the last half of my senior year, so we didn't get a lot of time together in school, but we kept seeing each other afterward because we were having a good time and decided that despite the distance and the fact that she was still in school that we could make it work. For context, she transferred back home to attend a school in New York, so it was a 4-hour drive any time I wanted to see her, so that was usually a once-monthly thing.
What ego? Probably half of this thread is me acknowledging and admitting that I'm wrong for wanting to do the things I listed here.
Hey @BPH, appreciate the update. I was wondering about it but figured you'd post if/when ready to.
Technically I don't, but I'd have a hard time believing that wouldn't have elicited some response.
You'd think, however sounds to me like she read it (I mean who doesn't check their mail?) but was totally done and didn't want to risk you misinterpreting her reaching out thanking you as interest.
Should have gone with the stuffed puzzy, man.
