"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey all,

I want to improve my inner game/confidence, not so much to 'pick up' but just to have the confidence/ability/knowledge to strike up a conversation with a hottie.

Also, does anyone know of any good info from women about what they are looking for? Like clothes, looks, tips, etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I highly recommend you read stuff from Juggler and David Deangelo.
 

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I'm more interested in natural game. I looked at the ****y/funny routine but it's not me. I'll jibe a bit when I'm comfortable, but yeah his stuff it aint really me.
 

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Magnatolia said:
I'm more interested in natural game. I looked at the ****y/funny routine but it's not me. I'll jibe a bit when I'm comfortable, but yeah his stuff it aint really me.
juggler is 100% natural game.

There are no routines.

The whole routine is based on just being yourself and portraying it in the best way possible by taking certain guidelines into account.

You clearly have no idea what the method is about.

I can send you some stuff to read the Juggler Method. Just pm me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey ChrisZ, thanks for the vids. I wasn't having a dig at Juggler's method, haven't actually looked at it before.

Thanks again.
 

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write down a list of everything that fvcks you off. and think of it every time you get approach anxiety

Personally feminism/anti-men drives me up the wall, when i see a HB i think "fvcking hell kakashi your not gonna get let some punks ass witch get the better of you, because of a bit of social conditioning? ARRRGGHHHH"
 
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