Looking for Pilots and Wingmen in NYC Metro Area

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

NO MA'AM

Don Juan

Jun 27, 2010

I usually check out places on Saturday nights. When my schedule allows, I hang out other nights as well. Sometimes it's just me and other times I have anywhere from one to three guy friends. We are looking for anyone interested in going out to places in Northern to Central New Jersey, New York City, and Southern New York State. We try to have fun and make as many approaches as possible. We feel we could use a few more good men who share similar interests and are interested in actively approaching and picking up women. If interested, please reply to this thread.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.