PuroDeAgave
Don Juan
Some background: me and this girl have liked each other for a while.
I don't see her too often, so we haven't done much we've just kissed and we're pretty comfortable with eachother so we touch and tease but have never hooked up. But i want to make her my girlfriend. I'm a senior in highschool, shes a junior...if that matters?
I just want to know what most people would choose to do in this situation
Today she got back from camping and we're talking on the phone.
Basically she ends up nervously telling me that they were drunk and started playing strip poker.....
She got fingered twice (for a couple seconds each time) and blew one guy for 30 seconds it was part of the game and apparently nobody came.
Well I like her a lot now so i was pretty pissed off... but I'm the calm type.
She said she thought i had a right to know and that she really does like me and feels really ****ty and what not. Her other friend who has a boyfriend felt bad too and so did the guy whom she sucked off... he has a girlfriend. There was 4 of them and only one of the guys wasn't really holding on to someone and i knew he was the one who was instigating the whole game.
She said she knows it wasn't right and if she wasn't drunk she wouldn't have done anything like that but she knows that its no excuse and I really do know she's sincere.
[I'm no afc...i have a couple girls i could hook up with easily, but i haven't because i like her...I guess you could call it oneitis.
The main reason I don't want to stop liking her is because then i would have wasted A LOT of time.
I want a serious girlfriend now and thats why I've been going after her only.
Its not like i wanna be with her forever I know I'm a very jumpy person and i have crushes on plenty of other girls.]
We talked and i kind of just told her how i felt; very pissed off, but the way i see it is that, that kind of thing could happen to me too. (In fact it almost did like 2 nights ago but i decided not to.)
I know that it sounds rather chumpish but like i said I've invested a couple months into making this something that i want to last for a good 6 months or so I'm not too sure if i should drop it or not.
Options:
A. Just forget about it and keep having fun with her.
(Not too hard for me, my emotions work very fast and I kind of live in the moment.[Which might also be why I like a few other girls too, but her the most because i'm closest to her])
B. Give her a taste of it and see if she sticks around. Basically hook up with the other girl I kind of like and then see what happens with my main girl after that.(Not really my cup of tea because I don't like playing those i'm gonna get back at you games.)
C. Forget about her completely and pick another girl.
Now remember before you all pick C:
So if you made it this far let me know if you think she's worth holding on to or if its too much disrespect and what not.
I really want to know what most people would do
Thanks a lot for reading this and getting back to me it means a lot.
I don't see her too often, so we haven't done much we've just kissed and we're pretty comfortable with eachother so we touch and tease but have never hooked up. But i want to make her my girlfriend. I'm a senior in highschool, shes a junior...if that matters?
I just want to know what most people would choose to do in this situation
Today she got back from camping and we're talking on the phone.
Basically she ends up nervously telling me that they were drunk and started playing strip poker.....
She got fingered twice (for a couple seconds each time) and blew one guy for 30 seconds it was part of the game and apparently nobody came.
Well I like her a lot now so i was pretty pissed off... but I'm the calm type.
She said she thought i had a right to know and that she really does like me and feels really ****ty and what not. Her other friend who has a boyfriend felt bad too and so did the guy whom she sucked off... he has a girlfriend. There was 4 of them and only one of the guys wasn't really holding on to someone and i knew he was the one who was instigating the whole game.
She said she knows it wasn't right and if she wasn't drunk she wouldn't have done anything like that but she knows that its no excuse and I really do know she's sincere.
[I'm no afc...i have a couple girls i could hook up with easily, but i haven't because i like her...I guess you could call it oneitis.
The main reason I don't want to stop liking her is because then i would have wasted A LOT of time.
I want a serious girlfriend now and thats why I've been going after her only.
Its not like i wanna be with her forever I know I'm a very jumpy person and i have crushes on plenty of other girls.]
We talked and i kind of just told her how i felt; very pissed off, but the way i see it is that, that kind of thing could happen to me too. (In fact it almost did like 2 nights ago but i decided not to.)
I know that it sounds rather chumpish but like i said I've invested a couple months into making this something that i want to last for a good 6 months or so I'm not too sure if i should drop it or not.
Options:
A. Just forget about it and keep having fun with her.
(Not too hard for me, my emotions work very fast and I kind of live in the moment.[Which might also be why I like a few other girls too, but her the most because i'm closest to her])
B. Give her a taste of it and see if she sticks around. Basically hook up with the other girl I kind of like and then see what happens with my main girl after that.(Not really my cup of tea because I don't like playing those i'm gonna get back at you games.)
C. Forget about her completely and pick another girl.
Now remember before you all pick C:
- I'm not an AFC.
- If she was my girlfriend i'd break up with her.
- It's not like I want to be with her for THAT long.
- But I do like her a lot though.
- I'm leaning towards C but I'd rather pick A
So if you made it this far let me know if you think she's worth holding on to or if its too much disrespect and what not.
I really want to know what most people would do
Thanks a lot for reading this and getting back to me it means a lot.
good luck (don't argue this point as you made a rather large post concering "this" one girl)