"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looking for mentors to help uplift my game

I'm in the Mood

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All I can say is I've progressed intensely since I first stumbled upon the seduction community. I've never had a girlfriend but I've nexted many girls, which I consider an accomplishment.

If I could put a number to the amount of material that I've learned so far...it would be around 2% of a total 100%.

Maybe I'm actin a little too modest, but I realize that some of us here are miles ahead of massive amounts of AFCs out there, and we hold an almost endless pool of knowledge. I can confidently place myself among the lower rung of the more experienced DJs/PUAs, or whatever yall wanna call us.

So I have 98% of all the knowledge out there left to learn.

This I must say is IMPOSSIBLE to learn by oneself, I mean unless you're a complete natural or you kill yourself learning, you're gonna need some help along the way. I still have occasional AFC thoughts/moments, but I feel I've managed to eliminate the "A" and the "C" from the definition.
Man, I'm no average chump. I'm an extraordinary male.

One thing yall should know is I currently have a coach, but my coach doesn't know everything, thought it would be cool if he was a Godly seduction master or somethin crazy like that haha.

Anyway what I'm asking is if any of you experts here would consider taking me on as a student/friend. I would greatly appreciate having men I can look up to to as mentors, and learning all I can from them.

Thank you in advance, and know that I'm not here to disappoint. I'm here to do my thing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I will take you as a friend..... i am very above average with girls, but not am master. You can PM all the details.

first of all, do you have any questions about girls.?
 

I'm in the Mood

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No questions at the moment dude.

I'm kinda surprised that we're in such a shortage of seduction mentors.
Come on outta hiding you guys.
 

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I think it would be cool to have a whole program matching noobies with 'masters' or whatever. Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wouldn't consider nexting girls to be an accomplishment...
rather it sounds like a cop-out for being a coward.

Secondly, saying it is impossible to learn 100% of the game out there by yourself is a kick in the teeth to everyone here who have put in the effort and gone 100% and more.

Had you asked for help around even the 50% mark, that is something, but to give up and need mentorship at 2% lends me to think perhaps you are not serious in this game?

However if you ARE I would be more than happy to mentor you and guide you through but you have to be willing to do the work and you have to know that it isn't easy but the results are well worth it.

So my question to you is, how serious are you?
 

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RandallLambert said:
I wouldn't consider nexting girls to be an accomplishment...
rather it sounds like a cop-out for being a coward.

Secondly, saying it is impossible to learn 100% of the game out there by yourself is a kick in the teeth to everyone here who have put in the effort and gone 100% and more.

Had you asked for help around even the 50% mark, that is something, but to give up and need mentorship at 2% lends me to think perhaps you are not serious in this game?

However if you ARE I would be more than happy to mentor you and guide you through but you have to be willing to do the work and you have to know that it isn't easy but the results are well worth it.

So my question to you is, how serious are you?
The girls that I nexted were girls I had oneitis for and knew they didn't like me. Moving on from oneitis is definitely an accomplishment for anybody.
And man I HIGHLY doubt anyone knows everything about game. I say I know 2% of it all because there is an incredible amount of knowledge out there.

In order to learn as much as possible, I'll need to learn from as many people as I can. I am 100% serious about this.

And public threads? Hell no man. If I need help that badly I can just ask my mentor for help. There's a huge trust issue when taking advice from random people.
 

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Aren't you taking advice from random people by hooking up with a random "internet mentor" from some random internet site? Seems like semantics to me.

And not to hijack, but what is nexting?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hansol said:
Aren't you taking advice from random people by hooking up with a random "internet mentor" from some random internet site? Seems like semantics to me.

And not to hijack, but what is nexting?
Just like when you meet a woman for the first time, there's a void in your relationship that you don't know if she can fill or not.

I'm not going to take advice from just anybody; if someone offers to mentor me and I feel like they're not worth my time, I'll drop em in an instant.

In fact that's also what nexting is. Nexting is dropping one woman and moving on to the next one.
 

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You're 17 dude. You have much to learn when it comes to life (far more than 2%) and only experience can teach you that.
 

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Captain Harlock said:
You're 17 dude. You have much to learn when it comes to life (far more than 2%) and only experience can teach you that.
Only experience?
What do you think this site is for..

And let me point out that it is EXTREMELY hard to find someone reliable on here. If anyone true wants to step up, I'm still open-minded to an apprenticeship.
 

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RandallLambert said:
I wouldn't consider nexting girls to be an accomplishment...
rather it sounds like a cop-out for being a coward.
If it weren't at least some kind of accomplishment how come so many guys on here fail to do it?

RandallLambert said:
Secondly, saying it is impossible to learn 100% of the game out there by yourself is a kick in the teeth to everyone here who have put in the effort and gone 100% and more.
Nobody knows 100% of the game. It is impossible to learn *everything* about anything because there is always stuff being learned by others that you don't know. That is why we all have to keep on learning. That's what makes this an artform.

RandallLambert said:
Had you asked for help around even the 50% mark, that is something, but to give up and need mentorship at 2% lends me to think perhaps you are not serious in this game?
I kind of take issue with that. The problem that a lot of guys have is that they try to learn too much on their own before seeking the assistance of guys like you and me. They come in, pre-packaged with what they've figured out on their own. I would much rather take under my wing a student who knows nothing, knows he knows nothing, and whom I can start fresh with than somebody who comes with preconceived notions. I believe mastery of this game is working smarter, not harder.

I don't think it's a good idea to trust the advice of ANYONE at first. I defintely think that it should be TESTED. And if the things that coach tells him to do fail to deliver, he should ditch him completely. I've coached people before, and every one of them has had at least one woman pursuing *them* as a result. That's because I teach what I do myself, and I welcome anyone in my area (Tyler to Dallas, TX) to meet me in person and we'll go out and I'll show you my game is for real. I'm dead serious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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