"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know there's a similar thread on here, but this one is different. Let me explain. I'm in between jobs right now and basically i'm looking for ideas to make a little extra money on the side. Does anyone here have there own small, Part-Time/Full-Time business? If so could you please tell me the steps it took to get into your business. I'm just really curious, would like some tips. I Have a couple rough ideas such as, Lawnmowing, Teaching possibily older people about computers. Please share your knowledge with me. Thank you,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I do painting on the weekends. You wouldnt believe how much money people pay for you to paint their house as long as you do a professional job. Anyways I learned through working at home depot and eventually started up my own little business if you can call it that.
 

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Breathe. Rest. Focus. Passion. Water. Love. Rhythm. Flexibility.

Combine these eight elements and your life will be singular. These are the key ingredients that drive success.
 

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buckwheat18 said:
I know there's a similar thread on here, but this one is different. Let me explain. I'm in between jobs right now and basically i'm looking for ideas to make a little extra money on the side. Does anyone here have there own small, Part-Time/Full-Time business? If so could you please tell me the steps it took to get into your business. I'm just really curious, would like some tips. I Have a couple rough ideas such as, Lawnmowing, Teaching possibily older people about computers. Please share your knowledge with me. Thank you,

I think the computer idea is awesome. Are you really good at computers? Is it a passion of yours? Focus on IMPROVING your knowledge about computers! Get to the point where you can even go out and help people fix their own basic computer problems.

Helping older people learn about computers is great! Sure, there's lots of people and classes offering this, but there's still a lot of opportunity if you make it! Start advertising in retirement homes and make flyers to get your name out there. Not just elderly people...there's also a lot of middle-age and young people who don't know sh*t.
 

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sparky0000 said:
Breathe. Rest. Focus. Passion. Water. Love. Rhythm. Flexibility.

Combine these eight elements and your life will be singular. These are the key ingredients that drive success.

Zen Master Sparky. Right on.


Starting your own business? Go to school for chiropracty (Sp?) They make an average of 80-100K/year.

More practical idea you say? Be a Pimp with health insurance.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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