"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Update:A year and some months later..

Yeah.. its been a while. How is everyone? I rarely frequent these forums these days. Well last time I was super serious I got all the way up to 205 Lbs. I was feeling like a beast. But I was also feeling a bit chubby. I grew a good size and I believe I could of kept gaining and gaining but I didn't like the flab on me so I started cutting. I cut down to 180.

This was all last october... these days I've just been maintaining my weight and working out to keep my gains. Been pretty busy with school and what not so I don't have the time to hit it pretty serious but I'm going to try and do it all again soon. Here are some pics of my gains!

Weighing 195 in these 3 here http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a...25695553_100000411006395_699687_6870737_n.jpg

http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/20110405132303.jpg

http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a...19510077_100000411006395_664102_3859766_n.jpg

When I hit 205 lbs: http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/381236_337811692909195_112837564_n.jpg


annnd when I cut down to 180 lbs.
http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/393378_321395567884141_1263598269_n.jpg

These days I'm weighing 185 so kinda more like my last pic. I owe you guys for helping me and pointing me in the right direction.

Just for fun, this is how i looked back in 2007.. 150 lbs of bones lol Keep in mind I started lifting the beginning of 2010 and i was weighing 160, so not much change from 2007 to 2010 http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/1kVthKWFqd06eXMFWt4mGAxktzRDV1182.jpg
 

ProDJ26

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Other members looking to gain should take notes

Congrats on the dedication which is something most people can't do

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