"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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looking for good opener for chat ;-)

roithi

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hello!

I'm not a really creative guy in things like opening a talk or chat to a unknown woman.

I think many men know it, when you surf on sites like Myspace, and than you find womans where you think "wow she looks great". but how shall i make the first step and contact her? - and thats i thing what i would like to know :D

I mean, when the first message is like "hi how are you? "...- i think thats kind of boring and most times you won't get a response...

So what would be a nice funny message to start a chat?

I'm waiting for answers

ps: I know my english is not perfect :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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brenbaus

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read her profile, then use some c/f in your message, get her attention, then get her phone number and game her like any other chick
 

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Yeah, what the guy said above me.

Look for something in the profile to "tease" her about.

For example,

Alot of girls my age will put like 100 or 45 as their age, and their hometown like.. zimbabwe (i'm 18) so creepy people (like me i suppose) won't find them on browse lol.

So I usually say, wow you look alright for a 68 year old from zimbabwe... blah blah blah.. write back sometime.

Or.. I recently messaged a girl who had I'm bringing sexy back as a pic caption.

And I messaged her to politely tell her that, no..I'm the one bringing sexy back, and she can try to bring it back all she wants but.. I already brought it.

lol.

Just have fun with it, its the damn internet. lol

So I often say something like, Wel
 

roithi

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but what can you say if you don't have much informations about her?

like a "universal" opener *g*

I know in myspace you always get lots of informations, but there are a lot of sites (like the one I'm talking from, but it's small compared to myspace, so you won't know it)...and you just have informations about the age, and places where they go out....
...and in Austria you won't find girls who choose "Zimbabe" in there country preferences - you know we are so proud beeing Austrians *ggg* :D
 

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Just be cool about it.

Hell say, Hey etc etc wanna chat.

It doesn't really matter lol.

or..

"You probably get a million messages a day from guys, tell me how I can get your attention".

heh..i dunno.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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