"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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looking for good opener for chat ;-)

roithi

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hello!

I'm not a really creative guy in things like opening a talk or chat to a unknown woman.

I think many men know it, when you surf on sites like Myspace, and than you find womans where you think "wow she looks great". but how shall i make the first step and contact her? - and thats i thing what i would like to know :D

I mean, when the first message is like "hi how are you? "...- i think thats kind of boring and most times you won't get a response...

So what would be a nice funny message to start a chat?

I'm waiting for answers

ps: I know my english is not perfect :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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brenbaus

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read her profile, then use some c/f in your message, get her attention, then get her phone number and game her like any other chick
 

StoneColdFox

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Yeah, what the guy said above me.

Look for something in the profile to "tease" her about.

For example,

Alot of girls my age will put like 100 or 45 as their age, and their hometown like.. zimbabwe (i'm 18) so creepy people (like me i suppose) won't find them on browse lol.

So I usually say, wow you look alright for a 68 year old from zimbabwe... blah blah blah.. write back sometime.

Or.. I recently messaged a girl who had I'm bringing sexy back as a pic caption.

And I messaged her to politely tell her that, no..I'm the one bringing sexy back, and she can try to bring it back all she wants but.. I already brought it.

lol.

Just have fun with it, its the damn internet. lol

So I often say something like, Wel
 

roithi

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but what can you say if you don't have much informations about her?

like a "universal" opener *g*

I know in myspace you always get lots of informations, but there are a lot of sites (like the one I'm talking from, but it's small compared to myspace, so you won't know it)...and you just have informations about the age, and places where they go out....
...and in Austria you won't find girls who choose "Zimbabe" in there country preferences - you know we are so proud beeing Austrians *ggg* :D
 

StoneColdFox

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Just be cool about it.

Hell say, Hey etc etc wanna chat.

It doesn't really matter lol.

or..

"You probably get a million messages a day from guys, tell me how I can get your attention".

heh..i dunno.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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