"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Looking for an online Mentor.

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I am looking forward to improving myself as I know my own potential is beyond my ability to describe it. I've made lots of mistakes in my life who kept me back from my goal, and I would like to have someone successful on my side who will push me to my limits.

I don't wish for it to be a money-based mentoring, however I am not expecting it to be for free. I have my own areas of expertise which I can offer back.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nothing wrong with such a trade, but why not elaborate on what you have to offer for barter? You might strike a chord with someone.
 
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@Atom Smasher - I will elaborate it to the person who is interested and we'll see if it works out between us.

@Harry Wilmington - I am looking forward something more "private", of course not a 24/7 consultant but an experienced person I can talk to and be his protégé.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll help you. Send me a message telling me about your situation and what you want to accomplish.
 
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