"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looking for an awesome old post by Pook

49au

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I read this a long time ago and it really impacted me, but I can't find it anywhere now. The post was fairly long, and he was talking about how we acted as little boys on the playground when interacting with girls. How there was no fear, pedestaling, how we weren't afraid to pick on them, etc. He continues talking about how as adults we lose that childlike simplicity and become afraid of women. It was an AWESOME post.

90% sure it was Pook who wrote it. Does anyone know what I'm talking about or where I can find it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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personally, i'm prety sure i read it too.

and if im not wrong it's in the book of pook or DJ bible

take a look over there, and tell me if you found it, because i want to read it again.
 
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