Looking for advice

[MoMoney96]

Hmm, I've already moved on in terms of the itis. Since ppl didnt read the new post I'll repost it so it can be answered.

Ok, so for the sake of not making a zillion threads, I'm just gonna continue with questions and my journey in this thread.

So here's the scenario: next week I'm about to have an exchange meeting with a bunch of international students and I plan to be sociable and take over as it's been something I've been working on. They are going to be here for the summer so I wanted to work on being a sociable person and to be the go to guy for fun. I'm gonna be taking them out to all sorts of events all over the city.

However, the girl that I like will also be participating in this program, but I'm also in a nc with her.

Question: Should I also invite her to the party saturday? She will know about it because I'm planning to let them all know and perhaps dhv myself because I'm gonna be taking them all. Or should I just be a douche and not even invite her?

 

[Alexandar]

I'm also confused about relationships.

Please stop right there.

Forget kino, its a useless concept. That should usually take more than 2 dates, if you're like me.

I can't really advise you here

it would be foolish on my part to want to steer you.

you said it all yourself.

whats with the kino stateme nts? OP should ignore those.

he doesnt wana be like you man if you take more than 2 dates to lay your hand on her knee as you talk to her, why are you calling it 'feeling her up'? this is nonsense

kino should be started immidiately and should be vieweed simply as a normal part of normal convrrsation, youre overthinking it, and its silly.

OP, youre not being a douche if you dont invite her, just dont.

if she will know about it anyways, let her bring it up.

and look, dont ask girls to 'go out with you', you dont want to make sh it seem official cuz it brings up shield, you want to keep shields down

the way you do this is you pretend like shes your friend (to make it less stressful on yourself and keep yourself relaxed) but you act like youre gonna phuck her brains out, subconsciously.

meaning, lightly touch her arm and knee when talking in appropriate spots, initiate sex conversation in a friendly manner, as if its totally normal, cuz it is, look into her eyes and imagine phucking her but talk in a friendly manner, the lust will be telegraphed to her, and dont ask them to go out, just say lets grab a coffee, lets go check this place out, lets go do this or that, and thats it.

just like as if shes your. male buddy, dont ask, and dont use loaded statements like 'go out' or 'date'

you could still try to salvage this chick but i would recommend staying back for now until you smash a couple other girls, and get a bit more comfortable