Looking for advice on situation..

[TitanSS]

I feel like I've been starting too many threads in here for similar situations so if I have been please feel free to tell me.. It's just nice to get information from you all. Just now opening my mind to "the game"

The same girl that I had been experiencing oneitis for and that didn't tell me she had herpes messaged me. Earlier I had told her to come over tuesday or wednesday to discus the entire situation. She waitied all day to respond to me (10-11 hours) and says "I'll come over tuesday after work if that's okay". I responded with "Nah, that's not necessary" and she gave a simple "okay" and I thought that was that I'll never hear from her again.

I didn't want to positively reward her by giving her my free time for such negative behavior as waiting all day to text me back when I am 99% positive she read my message hours ago.

Welllll 15 minutes go by and she says "I'd like to come if you change your mind" and in another 3 minutes "I feel like I owe you an explanation anyway".

What is this some kind of **** test to get me to fall into her way or just for her to validate that I still want her before she moves on? Should I tell her to **** off or possibly say no to that and propose something else?

Considering waiting until tomorrow to answer and telling her to text me tuesday afternoon and if I'm free she can stop by.

I really don't think shes LTR material even though I am still interested in her.

Also asking this for future reference (girls without the herp). Trying to figure out how to get out of doing things on her terms and get her on my terms.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Once you're at the point of discussing the STDs you may have given each other, then that is going to be controlling the situation more than anything. This is not exactly an experience you want to repeat, and the don juan game is not especially relevant.

I would say to let her have her little chat, hug her goodbye and that will help both of you just let it go and part ways like mature adults. Obviously, don't fvck her again, but you don't have to treat her like a leper, either.

 

[TheException]

What is this some kind of **** test to get me to fall into her way or just for her to validate that I still want her before she moves on? Should I tell her to **** off or possibly say no to that and propose something else?

Your thinking wayyyy tooooo much about this. Shes not trying to control you or make you "fall into her way". She possibly gave you herpes and its completely reasonable for her to want to "explain herself". Me personally? As soon as I would have found that out....her number gets deleted. I would have no desire to look at her again. So Im not sure why you wanted to have this "talk"....from now on, Id suggest not having these "talks"....they are extremely feminine and weak.

Considering waiting until tomorrow to answer and telling her to text me tuesday afternoon and if I'm free she can stop by.

Dont play games just to fvck with people....thats what chumps do. Its one thing if you're actually busy doing other things but to ignore a girl for "X" amount of hours because she took a while to get back to you is pathetic.

I really don't think shes LTR material even though I am still interested in her.

Still wanting a woman who possibly gave you herpes = desperate chump

Surely you're better than that.

Also asking this for future reference (girls without the herp). Trying to figure out how to get out of doing things on her terms and get her on my terms.

Again....you mentioned earlier about becoming "game aware" and your in that stage of "mental masturbation". You are overthinking everything and creating problems out of thin air. This situation has nothing to do with her being controlling or seeing if she still wants you.....thats blatantly obvious by your willingness to even communicate with her after a possible Herpes transfer.