"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking for advice on inadequate A/C cooling in third floor apartment...should I just buy out the lease?

annoyedtenant

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Need advice on how to handle this situation. I mistakenly rented a 3rd floor apartment in Texas with some weird expectation that it would be like any other apartment and that the A/C would function without an issue.

Well I just moved in and my expectations have been subverted. The A/C cannot keep up my with my demands (I set it on 70) and basically from around 9 AM to midnight, the unit cannot cool my apartment so the unit runs throughout that entire time range and the thermostat reading slowly goes up as the day goes on.

It is not even that hot outside, there's a high of 88 degrees and in some cities there are ordinances that the A/C should be able to cool at least 20 degrees below the outside ambient. So theoretically I should be able to have it cool down to 68.

I work nights so I'm gone basically 12 hours a day and I sleep during the day/hours when the A/C would not be performing which is, to say the least, ****. The apartment gets warm, stuffy, and it's not comfortable enough to sleep in which can affect my work. And when I'm off I am not able to enjoy living here because of the internal temp.

So far I am already considering buying out my lease which, while not, cheap, is not the worst thing in the world?

The problem here is that the A/C unit is technically functioning; the air coming out is cold but the tonnage is inadequate OR the insulation in the attic is either insufficient or non existent. I believe an upgraded unit would solve the problem but I am hesitant to believe my apartment complex will consider it. It would be amazing if they let me out of the lease due to health concerns.

My other concern is basically an unending back and forth with the apartment management who will basically just tell me to deal with it or will continue to have maintenance perform "fixes" that do not address the root problem. Case in point: today they replaced the compressor which, after doing so, has not made any difference. The unit itself has no problems as far as I know; like I said it blows out cold air like it should.

I guess I'm looking for advice on how to traverse this, how to communicate with the office, and if anyone has some tips on how I could spin things in my favor to get out of the lease without having to pay the early termination fees.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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Don't know about Texas law but here in Oklahoma you can break your lease for inadequate air-conditioning. I would tell them if they don't install a unit that will adequately cool the unit you are moving. Summer is almost over so you could delay this until the summer months when it's extremely hot.
 
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