"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looking for a psychological term

TenOfSpades

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I am sure there has to be a specific name for this I just don't know what to search to find what it is.

A person will be interested in somebody but doesn't want that interest to be known. So their interest will leak through by talking about that person a fair amount. The manner they speak about that person in isn't always positive. Bringing up annoyances or the other sort, but always finding a way to talk about them. Essentially hiding it yet still letting it leak through. Does this have a specific psych name?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cognitive dissonance is close but it's not exactly that. It's not trying to subconsciously hide it
 
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