"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well look no further, and I quote
A NEW reason to hate bankers. And men. And spreadsheets.
Oh Owen Vaughan, that's some champagne journalism.

And lets not forget the title of this piece:
Creepy investment banker rated dates on spreadsheet
His crime? evaluating women on a spreadsheet *GASP*
Nevermind the fact women have whole sites dedicated to this or a little thing called gossip, he's "creepy"?

And to top it off, this guy apologizes.

http://www.news.com.au/business/wor...ting-spreadsheet/story-e6frfm9r-1226334020447
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Geez. The sad part is the part where he apologizes. It's that sort of behavior that keeps this sh!t happening.
 

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Pretty much every woman in the comments has said there's nothing wrong with this, making Owen Vaughan look like a tool with his pre-emptive white knighting.

I wouldn't trust this IB fella with my money though. He now has a history of leaking private spreadsheets to gossiping bimbos.
 
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