"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looking for a more powerful purpose in life.. anyone else?

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stayfly

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get out and travel HEAPS and meet lots of cool people and then come back with a better perspective on what you want to do with your life
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brighty said:
Yes, I've always wanted to be a film producer. I have so many great ideas and scripts for films, but the industry is ridiculously hard to break into and my dad already tried doing that he's now single and lives in an apartment and doesn't make a lot of money. I don't know the first thing about how I would even go about getting into the industry or submitting my work to Hollywood or something. It's kind of overwhelming.
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Ya know, I'm actually in the industry as an actor. You're right, it is really hard to break into the scene, but if that's your passion i say go for it. I'm just barely getting into it as well, and let me tell you there are so many people doing the same thing; the competition is fierce. But i mean what's the point of doing something if you're not passionate about it, right? Do what makes you happy man.
 
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I'm an artist myself trying to break into the film and video game industry. But I want to use art to benefit others, not just entertain them. I've been thinking about this for a while and lately I've been realizing that I need to take the focus off of myself and put it on others.

If you don't believe me, go out and ask someone how their day is going so far. They brighten up. It's crazy. Go to someone who looks like they could use money and give em a 20 and watch their face grow in shock.

Now I'm not saying go and devote your life to giving all the time. I'm just saying take that into consideration when you fnd out what you want to do. Yove already acheived something great in your search for becoming better with women. Now give that back to others. You don't have o train people
on being a DJ or anything. You can use it in your writing. You can give through your passion. You will feel more fulfilled.

Hoped this helped and good luck.
 
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