"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Looking for a little help from other LA members

skEwb

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I'm well aware of the places to best pick up women such as malls, dept stores etc. but lately I just need a change of scene from coming out of an LTR and would like a bit of music and fun to go along with it. Basically what I'm asking for is for anyone that knows where a prominent scene of black women likes to flock to in Los Angeles. I love my ebony ladies and would love to be the ivory that walks in for a kill.. or two ;) Let me hear from the rest of you any answer is highly appreciated. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alphamale1821

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I HOPE your dealing with classy ebony women, the typical black women is loud, ghetto and ignorant.(i'm black)
 

skEwb

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Alphamale1821 said:
I HOPE your dealing with classy ebony women, the typical black women is loud, ghetto and ignorant.(i'm black)
First of all thanks for looking out, that's much appreciated. I'm white and my ex coming from the LTR was a pretty classy black woman, so yeah that'd be good and I enjoy going to classy places better, but really I just can't help but have a thing for the ones with some street talk, I find it sort of attractive hah, it's weird I know. Anyway any sort of tips for clubs like this would be cool, I have my usual spots that get sprinkled with different races, but I'm looking for somewhere with more black women, any tips are appreciated!
 
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