"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Looking different-- WAY different!

bluenorther

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I can go downtown where I grew up, and go nuts from all the HBs strolling around. Approaching them is next to impossible-- they scurry by, hypnotized by their effing cellphones. They're often guarded by their besties, also on their cellphones.
Something dawned on me when I was at a city history celebration, where they wanted people to dress in period drag-- I can be a cavalry soldier and suddenly I'm the star of my own show! I don't even need a horse; if anything, I'm better without.
Walking down the street with two of my buddies, also in uniform, we got stopped every block by people wanting to take pictures with us. The town was our oyster!
For some reason, being dressed funny suddenly makes us Okay to have around.

There's gotta be a way to carry this over so we can use it to run pickup on an everyday basis. I don't mean peacocking, but be able to dress like a pirate or whatever and have that be the icebreaker.
I wore my uniform after a party last weekend, just doing errands, and it was awesome.

Can you guess by my screen name, which side I'm on? Yeah, I read the book and when I got to the end, I said "That's the side I want to be on!"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thundernuts

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...No offense in the slightest, im just asking.

Do you really wanna be the guy known around town for dressing up all the time and using that to pick up chicks?

I mean **** at the least give it a shot it just to say you did but for some reason i got the feeling your intending to do this alot.
 
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