"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looking different-- WAY different!

bluenorther

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I can go downtown where I grew up, and go nuts from all the HBs strolling around. Approaching them is next to impossible-- they scurry by, hypnotized by their effing cellphones. They're often guarded by their besties, also on their cellphones.
Something dawned on me when I was at a city history celebration, where they wanted people to dress in period drag-- I can be a cavalry soldier and suddenly I'm the star of my own show! I don't even need a horse; if anything, I'm better without.
Walking down the street with two of my buddies, also in uniform, we got stopped every block by people wanting to take pictures with us. The town was our oyster!
For some reason, being dressed funny suddenly makes us Okay to have around.

There's gotta be a way to carry this over so we can use it to run pickup on an everyday basis. I don't mean peacocking, but be able to dress like a pirate or whatever and have that be the icebreaker.
I wore my uniform after a party last weekend, just doing errands, and it was awesome.

Can you guess by my screen name, which side I'm on? Yeah, I read the book and when I got to the end, I said "That's the side I want to be on!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thundernuts

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...No offense in the slightest, im just asking.

Do you really wanna be the guy known around town for dressing up all the time and using that to pick up chicks?

I mean **** at the least give it a shot it just to say you did but for some reason i got the feeling your intending to do this alot.
 
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