Looking Confident

[Captin Krunch]

Hellerrr..First i would like to say thanks to GOOGLE for helping me find this forum....this is exactly what i need lol...anywho

I had a roughhh life with the women earlier in life from as far as i can remember!! When i got into the 8th grade thats when things started to pick up for me, but because i started so late, the relationships deteriorated fast(less than a week...because of me and my "niceguy" mindset lmao) So thoughts ran through my mind and i started to think about my uncle thats 70 who has been single for dang near 50 years!! and i knew that wasnt how i was going to let my life be, so i went on the internet to find some help!!
SOO maybe a year ago i found out about David Deangelo, who has helped me a great deal with women! I read his newsletters and thats how i found out about C+F and a couple of other techniques. When i first started out i was shy, So i used the internet to try out the techniques (facebook myspace) and that helped my confidence ALOT...and now im talking to 18-20 year olds and im only 17!! but now i have hit a big pothole!! When i get around a LARGE group of people, i get REALLY nervous and my confindence starts to crumble...(maybe because im kind of insecure about my size and i think females would find a bigger buy unattractive..) But i need some help on building my confidence to the point where i can be comfortable around large crowds, and also working on LOOKING confident (the basics that may be easy to most but basically, sitting and walking more confident) i have been practicing my walk in the mirror and i think i have found one that i like, and its where i have one hand in my pocket and kind of a bounce....but im not sure if the hand in pocket might send a siginal as uncomfortable and unconfident...

but yea...if you have anything that will help me out, with with some of the things i pointed out in my lonng life story, please help lol....and also if anyone would like to be my mentor, or just someone i could ask questions to, that would be great also..just shoot me a PM!!

 

[eaglez1177]

Hellerrr..First i would like to say thanks to GOOGLE for helping me find this forum....this is exactly what i need lol...anywho

I had a roughhh life with the women earlier in life from as far as i can remember!! When i got into the 8th grade thats when things started to pick up for me, but because i started so late, the relationships deteriorated fast(less than a week...because of me and my "niceguy" mindset lmao) So thoughts ran through my mind and i started to think about my uncle thats 70 who has been single for dang near 50 years!! and i knew that wasnt how i was going to let my life be, so i went on the internet to find some help!!
SOO maybe a year ago i found out about David Deangelo, who has helped me a great deal with women! I read his newsletters and thats how i found out about C+F and a couple of other techniques. When i first started out i was shy, So i used the internet to try out the techniques (facebook myspace) and that helped my confidence ALOT...and now im talking to 18-20 year olds and im only 17!! but now i have hit a big pothole!! When i get around a LARGE group of people, i get REALLY nervous and my confindence starts to crumble...(maybe because im kind of insecure about my size and i think females would find a bigger buy unattractive..) But i need some help on building my confidence to the point where i can be comfortable around large crowds, and also working on LOOKING confident (the basics that may be easy to most but basically, sitting and walking more confident) i have been practicing my walk in the mirror and i think i have found one that i like, and its where i have one hand in my pocket and kind of a bounce....but im not sure if the hand in pocket might send a siginal as uncomfortable and unconfident...
but yea...if you have anything that will help me out, with with some of the things i pointed out in my lonng life story, please help lol....and also if anyone would like to be my mentor, or just someone i could ask questions to, that would be great also..just shoot me a PM!!

First off, DO NOT do this "walk". Trust me, anything different than a natural walk is going to make you look like such a fake fool, you'll only be embarassing yourself.

And to get rid of that insecurity, you have to start working out, dressing nicer, etc. Theres a TON of stuff here on how to make yourself look better to give you that confidence boost.

 

[TheEnergizer]

i agree, that walk of yours with the hand in the pocket and the bounce will make you look like an idiot. confidence is on the inside, if youre confident on the inside, so will you be on the outside. if you ARE confident you will automagically LOOK and ACT confident. and youre walk and everything else you do will naturally adjust.

 

[Evzone]

Solution: Go out and hit on girls. You are free to use any strategy toward that end, but it must be real world, not online.

Look, confidence does not come from reading articles. True confidence comes from accomplishment. Get some experience. Even if you fail, you are plenty young. Take advantage of this time to make some mistakes.

 

[saturos]

Walking confidently and pretending to walk confidently are not two things that will appear the same. If someone is confident and walks with a swagger or the like, you can tell.
On the same hand, you can tell when someone unconfident is walking like an idiot.

 

[Captin Krunch]

Yea fellas...the walk aint that bad...I jus wanted to try somethin different because when i walked i thought it looked real stiff....yea i agree that pretending to walk confident and actually walking confidently are two different things...but i wasnt pretending to be confident, i mean actors and music artists even practice the way they look, and the way they do certain things in the mirror for weeks lol!..i think the idea that i needed to improve my wardrobe was a good one!...ive been doing just that and for the last couple of days my confidence has boosted alot. And to Evzone, I have a little more work to do before i can get the guts to hit on females that i totally dont know (like in the mall) lol....but like at school i do hit on them, i just used the internet as a playing field to test some stuff out if you will lol..

thanks for the feedback folks...i appreciate it!

 

[eaglez1177]

Just trust me, DO NOT do that walk...your going to look like a complete fool.