Looking back... a rant about my past self part 1

[playa99]

Today I looked back over the past 5 years of game in my life and it's reinforced several lessons that I've learned!

1: Talking to a girl over a social network exclusively is bullsh!t, I've had girls tell me they love me over Facebook when I've never met them... one of these was my ex girlfriend.... Serious RED flag, I do not need to explain why, its fvcking crazy! The best way to actually get decent interest off decent women is to get out there and game girls, time and time again I've tried the whole Facebook message thing and it just hasn't worked!

2: Women in general are a lot worse than men when it comes to sleeping around... Most of my mates on average have slept with around 5-10 women and we are all around 21. Most girls I know have done more, you cannot get a number out of most of them though! In short, most girls love a good banging! Stop thinking women are angelic creatures who're never at fault, they fvck up as much as men! Take them off that pedestal.

3: What kind of person you are depends who you will naturally attract and who you will be attracted to. This website can lead to a god complex... thinking you can attract any woman. It did with me, plain and simple you will not be some womens type, and vice versa!

4: Attraction beats all! This is important... listen up...... IF A WOMAN IS ATTRACTED TO YOU SHE WILL FIND A WAY TO MEET YOU, PERIOD, END OF, NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!!!!!! My current girlfriend works 60 hours a week and found a way to meet me. If she flakes on you.. she is gone. Stop trying to fit a square peg into a round hole and move on, i've cancelled on women and you know why I did that.. I just wasn't feeling it. Nothing wrong with that.

5: Be comfortable being you. To me this is the most important of them all. You gotta be comfortable in your own skin, I hid from who I was for a long time and was attracting crazy women. It's half of what game is.. embracing who you are and using it to your advantage! If your comfortable its easier to be confident, I've found the best way to talk to women is to simply find out about her life in an indirect way, ask her what she's up to at the weekend, find out and go into what interests her.. how it makes her feel and actually take a genuine interest, you don't have to say much, only ask the right things, just look for her fawning over you and get the number.. take it from there
Keep a lot of mystery about yourself, tell women things you do, not how you feel.

6: Do not dive in to fast emotionally. You should not be doing it to get to know someone very well, also your acting like a wimp, DONT DO IT!

Don't get drunk and ring her and chat sh!t... never works.

7:Girls talk, use this to your advantage.. don't be getting into women in the same social circle at the same time.. they will find out and then you will be left with neither woman!


This has been written in a rush and more will be added later... this is not a get laid quick guide, this is my experience on what i've learned and how to look at improving your life..... which to me is the most important thing

 

[TheException]

http://youtu.be/n6ixSSbNDKo

"If only I'd of known....that later on down the road, I'd look back and not like what I'd seen....I'd of changed a lot of things, starting with me.

Its all a learning process.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Today I looked back over the past 5 years of game in my life and it's reinforced several lessons that I've learned!

1: Talking to a girl over a social network exclusively is bullsh!t, I've had girls tell me they love me over Facebook when I've never met them... one of these was my ex girlfriend.... Serious RED flag, I do not need to explain why, its fvcking crazy! The best way to actually get decent interest off decent women is to get out there and game girls, time and time again I've tried the whole Facebook message thing and it just hasn't worked!

2: Women in general are a lot worse than men when it comes to sleeping around... Most of my mates on average have slept with around 5-10 women and we are all around 21. Most girls I know have done more, you cannot get a number out of most of them though! In short, most girls love a good banging! Stop thinking women are angelic creatures who're never at fault, they fvck up as much as men! Take them off that pedestal.

3: What kind of person you are depends who you will naturally attract and who you will be attracted to. This website can lead to a god complex... thinking you can attract any woman. It did with me, plain and simple you will not be some womens type, and vice versa!

4: Attraction beats all! This is important... listen up...... IF A WOMAN IS ATTRACTED TO YOU SHE WILL FIND A WAY TO MEET YOU, PERIOD, END OF, NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!!!!!! My current girlfriend works 60 hours a week and found a way to meet me. If she flakes on you.. she is gone. Stop trying to fit a square peg into a round hole and move on, i've cancelled on women and you know why I did that.. I just wasn't feeling it. Nothing wrong with that.

5: Be comfortable being you. To me this is the most important of them all. You gotta be comfortable in your own skin, I hid from who I was for a long time and was attracting crazy women. It's half of what game is.. embracing who you are and using it to your advantage! If your comfortable its easier to be confident, I've found the best way to talk to women is to simply find out about her life in an indirect way, ask her what she's up to at the weekend, find out and go into what interests her.. how it makes her feel and actually take a genuine interest, you don't have to say much, only ask the right things, just look for her fawning over you and get the number.. take it from there
Keep a lot of mystery about yourself, tell women things you do, not how you feel.

6: Do not dive in to fast emotionally. You should not be doing it to get to know someone very well, also your acting like a wimp, DONT DO IT!

Don't get drunk and ring her and chat sh!t... never works.

7:Girls talk, use this to your advantage.. don't be getting into women in the same social circle at the same time.. they will find out and then you will be left with neither woman!


This has been written in a rush and more will be added later... this is not a get laid quick guide, this is my experience on what i've learned and how to look at improving your life..... which to me is the most important thing

Well you are only 21, and from the experience you mention, sounds like you started having success with girls around the age most ages do, in high school

 

[D Wolfgang]

"Look at this photograph, every time I do it takes me back." Heh, sorry, I have had Look at this Photograph in my head for days, from watching a YouTube parody by CollegeHumor, Look at this Instagram. But I digress.

So true, that is a woman likes you she will have time for you. And that is a good way to gauge her interest. She will have time at least once a week, everyone does. If she says she doesn't, then you know.

Women do not have a higher average of sex partners, though. Observe: "In the survey conducted by the National Center for Health Statistics on 6,237 adults between the ages of 20 to 59 from 1999 to 2002, it was found that 29% of men had 15 or more sexual partners, and 9% of women had sex with 15 or more men."

Remember that anecdotal evidence is not evidence. (And I am saying that not just for this issue, but for so many things people discuss.) Even if you know the number of sex partners for a dozen girls, that is not evidence. You would have to know the numbers for two hundred or more to get somewhere. We really need to look at the statistics, even though that is hard because what we have seen with our own eyes, even when it is just a few examples, feels more "real". Imagine how many arguments we would avoid by looking at the statistics available. But again, I digress.


True, don't become emotionally involved too fast. I really believe men are quicker to become emotionally involved than women. For men it just takes that a girl who is somewhat attractive and who has an okay personality smiles at you and agrees to sleep with you. Women have more calculations to work out. For them it is also a matter of economics and social impact, among other things. Although when they do get involved, they seem to be in deeper than men. Or to put it another way, "Women have the power before the relationship, men have the power after you start the relationship." Not entirely, but it leans in this direction.

 

[Skyline]

Bump.

These "guidelines" or whatever are a great short read for new people. Ive seen a lot of violation of most of these lately, especially the online one.