"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Looking away from Eye Contact with UGLY chicks

verysuave

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Okay,

I don't like looking away when i make eye contact with women.. unfortunately even with the fuglies. It makes me feel weak. Anyone else feelin me here? Do you look away when you ACCIDENTALLY make eye contact with fuglies?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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trverb

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I just stare back.
I know they just want my sweet ass and theres no harm in making her feel better bout herself as long as you dont make her think its gonna happen.

if they come to talk just dont flirt etc
 

insidious

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Alrightie then!
How lame and shallow and *****y is this thread.

Just stare back. If they are ugly, they probably won't make a move. And at the very least, you have made her day by your attentions. Maybe she'll go home with a smile and think better of herself. It is such a common sentiment in these parts to treat super hot women as any other woman...I think the same goes for ugly women. They are human too, I doubt they enjoy looking like they do as much as you do having to look at them :yes:
 

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Giving them eye contact is ok. You can garner more confidence, practice and maybe more socializing if you choose.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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lol. two fatties were eyeballing me tonight at the bar. I definite looked away. I looked right past them to the hottie standing behind them. they were trying hard to get my attention. I couldn't give it to them.
 

Alphamale1821

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this topic is stupid......just because i look away from UGLY chicks i feel less manly WTF. Look at who the **** you want fro however long you want no big deal.
 

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Don't discriminate. When I make eye contact with the ladies, I always smile and nod as a sign of acknowledgement. Respect all different types of people and life will treat you very well.
 

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i think flirting with them is good cos it shows the HB's that you are not only after looks. It boosts your value regardless of if shes rank or not.
Were I come from, the women look at this as a desperate attempt to get some @ss.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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mr.uk said:
i think flirting with them is good cos it shows the HB's that you are not only after looks. It boosts your value regardless of if shes rank or not.
so you're telling me that hanging around with a bunch of fatties is gonna raise your value in the eyes of the hotties??

*cricket chirpin sound*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DoctorLW

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I don't look at uglies because they aren't pleasing to look at. Neither should you. Look at what you want to look at, don't worry about making eye contact with all girls just for the sake of it.
 

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Next time that happens just punch them in the eye. Then run off.

Seriously, who the fvck cares? They're ugly.
 

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When an ugly chick stares at me then I accidently catch their eye and due to 18 years of social programming I have to smile and nod back at them for courtesy only.

But if they have braces and start smiling at me.....


I die a little inside.
 

lordson

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having any girl look at me gives me a slight ego boost

but i always get this sick feeling in my stomach when an ugly girl looks at me

i'm always thinking inside "stop looking at me, i'm giong to turn into stone!"

but. ugly chicks have opinions too. they still recognize what they find attractive and not. look at yourselves. some of you guys must be avergae looking but still have an opinion on hot chicks and this stare at hot chicks

just consider it a compliment whenever any girl is looking at you
 
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