"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What if they were open about it and talked about it with no shame?
This would entail complete shamelessness.

Of course, in the abstract, we have heard all the public arguments against shame. But we know what it is, in the privacy of our worse moments.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think he means that watching porn is not something most men are open about when they're around people because it seems so degrading and disgusting, thus keeping it a secret and not allowing you to be completely "free" and truthful.
If you can’t admit to watch porn past the age of 18, you got problems.
 

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Porn. Meh. Can’t be bothered
Used to watch it often years ago. Now it bores me.
For me I noticed I’m more stiff during sex, more dominant, last longer. Also more animal killer instinct too.
 
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