"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok here's the 411.

I've been seeing this girl Sarah for 3-4 weeks. We have great chemistry and a great time.

The catch is that i used to date her roommate Kelly about 6 months ago for maybe 6 weeks. We didn't really make a good couple, so things kind of ended between us, but not on a great note. I just kind of ignored her/blew her off and eventually she got the picture. Kelly is now seeing some boy she started dating when we broke up (so ~6 months) and thinks shes in love

Fastforward to mid-november and I've started to date Sarah. Things have been going great but the reality is that her roommate is not ok with us dating. I've talked to Kelly, apologized about how it ended between, etc. She says "she doesnt care" but shes "insulted" that we're hanging out. So basically she cares and doesn't want to admit it.

Update to tonight. Sarah was all about it up until about an hour ago. When she "realized she was being greedy" and "ignoring Kelly's feelings". She pretty much just said we can't hang out anymore. Now I know, based on what she was saying just hours ago, that isn't what she wants. But she thinks its the "right" thing to do...

Not that I necessarily disagree but I've been through this situation before and dated roommates. How do I show Sarah that it can work? Need help!

-John
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah the forums went down earlier or something, but i guess the post went through! I decided as i wrote it the second time id change the names.....too late haha
 
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talked to Kelly, apologized about how it ended between, etc. She says "she doesnt care" but shes "insulted"

Here's a question. Why are YOU apologizing for the way things ended? Did you get caught banging her mom or something? This is the sort of thing that empowers a woman over a man. STOP IT!

She's insulted? Here's your response....'you'll get over it'.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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