Looked at other girls butt...

[jadeona13]

When i first started going out with my GF a while ago,,,i looked a girls but and she caught me and yelled...shebrings it up sometimes now and jokes about it but i can tellit hurt her...

I told her i was going to the mall soon and she said.."Ok. Try not to look at too many butts. What who said that?''

i said "i dont i got all i need"

and she said "ok"

and we got off the phone

What did she mean when she said that?

 

[demonic]

Just tell her it's natural...it does'nt mean your going to jump into bed with the girl.

Your a bloke and it's just natural.

 

[MotownMack]

Obviously, she's insecure, and I would be careful about placating her and trying to pacifier her.

Look, if you were checking chicks out all the time, that would be a different story.

If this is an isolated incident and she is giving you this much grief over it, you can absolutely expect there will be more to come, to the extent that she will start accusing you of this behavior even when you truly weren't doing it. (been there, done that)

Most women understand that guys are going to "look" from time to time. IMO, you've done enough (maybe already too much) to try to re-assure her. If you keep doing this, she'll either view it as a control mechanism or derive some type of pleasure the the assurances, and your relationship will be one big sh1t test after another.

 

[BMX]

You're fine, don't worry. My ex told me: "They can look, but they just can't touch you." Be sure you don't stop giving your gf attention altogether.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

oh sh!t . This forum is becoming AFC centre .

Why in the hell are you going to analyse every letter of what she said ?
She just said try not to look too many asses . Okey ill try , ill do my best .

Thats all . There is no crypted hidden message behind every word . Cmon grow up .

 

[Cry For Love]

Ass is good(i think Eddie Murphy said that in some movie?), dont punish yourself for doing something that you enjoy. if you like it you do it, dont let her set your standards!

 

[demonic]

oh sh!t . This forum is becoming AFC centre .

Why in the hell are you going to analyse every letter of what she said ?
She just said try not to look too many asses . Okey ill try , ill do my best .

Thats all . There is no crypted hidden message behind every word . Cmon grow up .

It went that way aloooooong time ago

It's like an AFC rehab centre here now

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

She is worried your gonna see a girl with a better butt than her and dump her for it! Just let her know you are only looking and she is the one you like. Cause if you don't tell her what she wants to know. This will come up again and again.

 

[Mr. Me]

What did she mean when she said that?

She's a hoot and she's gonna bust on you about this 'till the day you die and see your last butt.

This is why it's VERY important to be on your best behavior around any women you intend to be with, because they have the memories of elephants and will forever bring up any transgressions at any moment.

Just laugh it off.