"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Look matters. End of the debate

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Am I the only one laughing about how NautyNinja was talking to himself in this thread? :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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salinechow said:
Im ripped. (not a brag just a fact pertaining to the convo) Yet, most profiles I see everywhere say they dont want to see guys with shirts off. So I dont put up those photos. Thoughts? Should we put those kinda of photos up anyway?
Don't. I'm ripped to all hell too (gotta work on legs though!), but I noticed that when the chicks find out you are a lot more toned than they thought, it really surprises them and leaves that mark on them forever. They will never think of you as the same again.

You aren't flaunting your looks so you seem humble. Yet you know you have a great body and you make it seem like it is no big deal. I can't explain it, but it does help out A LOT.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Just got really motivated to work out...
lmao. true.


OP...there is no debate on this. I think we all know good looks help a lot with women.
 

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Not long ago someone posted this:

"Looks will open the door for you, but if your game/inner self s*cks then you'll be staying in the doorway and you won't get in the house"

Unless the girl is some fckd up emotional mess that craves attention. Then there's nothing you can do wrong
 

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Why is he online then? Doesn't that mean he is single? Shouldn't he just pick up every girl he meets?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The only thing I am pissed of about is, so called PUA gurus went round for years saying looks don't matter.
 
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