"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Look matters. End of the debate

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Am I the only one laughing about how NautyNinja was talking to himself in this thread? :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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salinechow said:
Im ripped. (not a brag just a fact pertaining to the convo) Yet, most profiles I see everywhere say they dont want to see guys with shirts off. So I dont put up those photos. Thoughts? Should we put those kinda of photos up anyway?
Don't. I'm ripped to all hell too (gotta work on legs though!), but I noticed that when the chicks find out you are a lot more toned than they thought, it really surprises them and leaves that mark on them forever. They will never think of you as the same again.

You aren't flaunting your looks so you seem humble. Yet you know you have a great body and you make it seem like it is no big deal. I can't explain it, but it does help out A LOT.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Just got really motivated to work out...
lmao. true.


OP...there is no debate on this. I think we all know good looks help a lot with women.
 

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Not long ago someone posted this:

"Looks will open the door for you, but if your game/inner self s*cks then you'll be staying in the doorway and you won't get in the house"

Unless the girl is some fckd up emotional mess that craves attention. Then there's nothing you can do wrong
 

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Why is he online then? Doesn't that mean he is single? Shouldn't he just pick up every girl he meets?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The only thing I am pissed of about is, so called PUA gurus went round for years saying looks don't matter.
 
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