thelonewolflegend
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Can someone help me out this is only question i would need answered im a guy been screwed by women too much and want to just have **** buddies and enjoy life.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
look how can i know and fully figure out my issues i got with women so i can fix them
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thorninmyside
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Start with your issues in life. You're not in a position to be a catch for a woman. You need professional help, either medicinal or cognitive. Start with the core and work outwards.
thelonewolflegend
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Explain i went and saw cognitive behavior therapistand he was 0 help yold me. Wear niceshoes take me dinner.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
Read the DJ Bible and act on it. Go to the gym 6 days a week. Get a great job or any jobs. Join a club and volunteer. Become excellent at a hobby. If you health insurance or can afford it go to therapy. Cognitive or psychotherapist.
GS750
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Keep posting nonsense so the mods FINALLY ban you. Your threads are useless, unintelligible, and pointless. You contribute nothing to this community. You have been given advice and you don't listen. So keep it up so they ban you already.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.