"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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look how can i know and fully figure out my issues i got with women so i can fix them

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Can someone help me out this is only question i would need answered im a guy been screwed by women too much and want to just have **** buddies and enjoy life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thorninmyside

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Start with your issues in life. You're not in a position to be a catch for a woman. You need professional help, either medicinal or cognitive. Start with the core and work outwards.
 
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Explain i went and saw cognitive behavior therapistand he was 0 help yold me. Wear niceshoes take me dinner.
 

salinechow

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Read the DJ Bible and act on it. Go to the gym 6 days a week. Get a great job or any jobs. Join a club and volunteer. Become excellent at a hobby. If you health insurance or can afford it go to therapy. Cognitive or psychotherapist.
 

GS750

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Keep posting nonsense so the mods FINALLY ban you. Your threads are useless, unintelligible, and pointless. You contribute nothing to this community. You have been given advice and you don't listen. So keep it up so they ban you already.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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